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Obsession Is Not Love: Here’s Why You Often Confuse The Two, And How To Break The Cycle

Also, when it comes to wondering about your relationship with this person, make sure your questions are you-centered. Rather than thinking about their perception or intentions, ask yourself what you need and want.

Finally, realize that no one on Earth is worthy of being placed on such a high pedestal. Everyone is fallible– having downfalls and making mistakes. So if you worship the ground they work on, and they inevitably hurt you in some way, you are subjecting yourself to a world of hurt that is completely unnecessary.

Instead, take off the rose-colored glasses and realize that the person you’re obsessed with is human. See them for who they truly are, and leave the fantasy behind. This false idealistic view is only preventing you from forming a genuine connection, anyway.

And in its place, work to fill the emotional void that is present inside your own heart. Obsession tends to manifest when we feel a part of our own soul is empty. Maybe you lack self-love or feel unmotivated. Perhaps you desire more excitement or feel unsafe in your current situation.

Whatever it may be, just make a conscious effort to work on it.

At the end of the day, only you can take ownership of your life and fill it with abundance. And once you finally begin to feel empowered and fulfilled in your own mind and overall existence, you will stop feeling the need to fill your time with other people who just serve your subconscious obsessions.

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