She’s Explaining Why Your Girlfriend Probably Dumped You For No Apparent Reason
Have you ever been dumped for seemingly no apparent reason? TikToker Jennifer Reardon (@notjenneeree) is here to tell you that there is always a specific reason for a breakup, and she’s providing some answers.
In her video, which has gained nearly thirteen million views, she’s breaking down the science behind a breakup that occurs for “no reason.”
As she describes the steps that lead to a failed relationship between a boyfriend and a girlfriend, she draws a crude chart to give you a visual so you can better follow what happened.
So first, you start out in a happy relationship, and a simple, fixable problem arises. Jennifer uses the problem of “no good morning texts” as her example.
One day, your significant other comes to you and asks if you can start sending them good morning texts. So, of course, you agree.
But something happens. Maybe you’ve gotten busy, or you just may have forgotten, and you stopped texting them good morning.
Now, what was once a small, simple problem has morphed into a bigger issue. Your partner will think that you don’t care enough since you didn’t follow through on your promise.
However, it hasn’t culminated into a make-or-break issue yet, so your S.O. will just remind you about it to jog your memory.
Once again, you agree but don’t follow through a second time. In your S.O.’s head, they have confirmed that you don’t care enough to do one simple thing for them.
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Upset about this new revelation, they will begin picking little fights about a bunch of different things. It could be that you didn’t notice their new haircut. Or maybe you left dirty dishes in the sink.
But throughout the fights, they still love you and want to be with you, even though there are now several little problems in your relationship. Over time, though, the minor issues will become unattractive to your partner.
“And so now the problem is not these things. It’s not even that you don’t care enough. It’s not even that she never got good morning texts. It’s that she literally does not like you anymore,” explained Jennifer.
Eventually, this will lead to a breakup that leaves you wondering why. Your S.O. will list all the reasons why. Then, of course, you will object and promise to do better.
However, it’s already too late because you have become unattractive to your partner. It was a slow-moving process of you consistently not giving them what they needed that led to the final reason for a breakup.
Hopefully, that cleared things up a bit!
https://www.tiktok.com/@notjenneeree/video/7208308596713458986
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