Whether You Love Taylor Swift’s Music Or Not, Here Are A Few Things You Can Learn From Her Recent Breakup
Swifties everywhere fell to their knees in despair upon learning about the singer’s split with Joe Alwyn, her boyfriend of six years.
The news comes as Taylor embarks on her sold-out Eras tour, gracefully performing song after song in front of millions even mid-breakup.
It was reported that they parted ways cordially and without drama, but that doesn’t make it any less painful. Breakups are already the worst, and dealing with one in the public eye makes it even more unpleasant.
So even though it’s tough, because I know we’re all curious, let’s try not to pick apart every aspect of her relationship and just let Taylor do her thing as one of the world’s biggest pop superstars.
Instead of speculating over what led to their split (was it personality differences or did fame get in the way?), why don’t we go over what valuable messages we can take away from their breakup and how we can heal our own heartaches?
Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn were together for six long years. But just because you’ve been with someone for an extended period of time doesn’t mean you know everything about them.
There’s also no magical number of years you can hit that guarantees you will stay with someone forever. Not to bring you down, but whether it’s been ten years or twenty, there is still the possibility that the relationship won’t last.
People grow and change over time, and that’s not anyone’s fault. Sometimes, couples grow apart and no longer share the same values or goals.
It takes guts to admit it, but when you acknowledge that your relationship may have run its course, you’re doing the right thing by staying true to yourself.
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The queen of breakup songs and her beau were never the types to broadcast their love all over social media. Throughout their relationship, they have always kept their romance out of the spotlight.
Maintaining privacy has proven to be very beneficial in the process of healing. In the wake of a breakup, people will inevitably have opinions about it. And that includes negative comments from people you barely even know.
Keep your relationship away from the attention of the public to protect your mental health and to avoid letting random people’s jabs from getting to you.
However, that’s not to say that you should keep everything hidden away. Entrust a close-knit group of friends or family members with what’s going on in your love life.
Having proper support and adequate space to heal will allow you to get back on your feet, feeling happier and better than ever!
So let T-Swift be an inspiration to us all and follow her lead when it comes to handling the end of an era.
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