Her Sister Is Upset That She Didn’t Allow Her To Come Along On Her Third Date With A Guy
Going on your first couple of dates with someone can be super nerve-racking. Can you imagine if a family member crashed one of those dates?
One woman recently upset her older sister after telling her she couldn’t go with her on her third date with a guy.
She’s 24-years-old and has been talking to a guy she’s interested in for about two months. They finally started going on a few dates, and their third one is scheduled for next week.
She’s excited, as she’s always been too busy or anxious to seek out a relationship, and she really likes her dynamic with this guy.
For their third date, the two of them will be going to a local restaurant she has yet to try. However, one person in her life has wanted to eat there for a while – her older sister.
Her sister is one year older than her and has been having a rough time. She just finished college at the age of 25 and is currently single. She’s also been having a hard time at work.
Her sister has been bummed out watching her go on dates because now they can’t spend as much time together anymore. She also feels like she can’t be excited about her pending relationship with her sister.
So when her sister found out that she’d be going to the restaurant for her date, she became super upset.
She tried to tell her sister she’d return to the restaurant with her and described the date as a chance to try it out and see if it was any good. However, her sister was still very hurt.
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Then, her sister told her she was offended that she didn’t consider asking her to join them on their date so she could get to know the guy. She told her sister she thought about it, but the third date was too early to start bringing in family members.
Also, her sister had already briefly met the guy when he came to their house to pick her up for their first date. Finally, she asked her sister if she’d like to go to the restaurant with her before her date, and she blew up. Her sister told her she was wrong for not inviting her and not wanting her there on the date.
That’s when she knew that deep down, her sister was troubled about something deeper than eating at a new restaurant.
“I feel very conflicted because, on the one hand, I want to be alone with my date, and on the other hand, I don’t want my sister to be upset with me,” she said.
Although her sister has been acting very cold and distant toward her since they argued about the date, she decided to put her foot down and tell her sister she could not join her at the restaurant.
“I also probably need to set some boundaries in my relationship with my sister because I even considered taking her, and I can see it is not a normal thing now,” she explained.
Did she do the right thing by telling her sister she couldn’t join in on her date?
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