His Girlfriend Doesn’t Want To Break Up Even Though He Just Had A One-Night Stand, But He Still Doesn’t Know If They Should Continue Their Relationship
This 23-year-old guy has known his girlfriend, who is 21, for three years. But they had only been dating for under a year, and just a few days ago, he nearly wrecked their whole relationship.
After going out to a party with some friends last week, he had a one-night stand with one of his college friends.
“I don’t blame anything,” he admitted. “It was all my choice, and I regret it.”
So, the very next day, he invited his girlfriend over and confessed everything. After he revealed he had cheated, his girlfriend did start hysterically crying. However, he really didn’t think there was anything he could do.
“I felt like I lost my right to comfort her the moment I cheated on her,” he said.
That’s why he just waited for his girlfriend to calm down. Then, once she had collected herself, he said it would be for the best if they just broke up and she found someone better.
To his complete surprise, however, his girlfriend disagreed and claimed that she did not want to end their relationship. Instead, she started asking him a bunch of questions.
First, his girlfriend asked if he liked the other woman or had feelings for another girl. Then, she also asked if the cheating was just a one-time thing.
At that point, he swore he didn’t have feelings for anyone else and claimed to love his girlfriend. He also confirmed that the cheating had only happened once and swore it meant nothing to him.
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To be clear, he claimed he didn’t want to break up with his girlfriend, either. Apparently, he made it very clear from the beginning of their relationship that cheating was actually a deal-breaker for him.
“But now, I’m the one who cheated,” he explained. “I couldn’t look into her eyes and thought that even if we continued our relationship, it wouldn’t go far.”
While his girlfriend did admit to feeling hurt by his infidelity, though, she was actually willing to work through it together.
Still, he is not even able to face her due to the enormous guilt he feels right now. So, he honestly feels pretty pessimistic about the future of their relationship if they were to stay together.
“I don’t want to hurt her anymore, and I don’t know what would be best for her,” he vented.
That’s why he’s been left wondering whether he should break up with his girlfriend or try to work on their relationship together.
Would you be as understanding as his girlfriend if you were in her shoes? Do you think they could work through this together and come out stronger on the other side? At the same time, does it seem like he still wants to be with his girlfriend? What do you think he should do?
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