She Just Found Out That Her Best Friend Used To Regularly Hook Up With Her Boyfriend, And She’s Hurt Her Best Friend Kept This From Her
A 25-year-old girl has a guy best friend that she has been extremely close with since they were both back in elementary school.
They spent quite a long time going back and forth about whether or not they wanted to be more than friends, but they have decided to date one another.
As soon as she made her best friend her boyfriend, her female best friend started acting, well, quite strange.
“She came forward and told me about a time when she and my BF would regularly hook up,” she explained.
“It was only a short while before it started to feel awkward for both of them, and they went back to just being friends.”
“Yet she had never told me about that before (and we really talk about every little thing). She claims that she didn’t want to hurt me over something meaningless.”
She is hurt that her best friend never confessed to hooking up with her now-boyfriend, even though she certainly had plenty of opportunities to do so.
As soon as her best friend revealed this information to her, she turned around and talked to her boyfriend about it.
He instantly owned up to hooking up with her, and the story he told was the exact same one that her best friend told.
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Her boyfriend admitted to hooking up with her best friend on multiple occasions, but he never ended up feeling anything for her.
“He is really sorry about it but won’t say a bad word about our friend (which I really appreciate),” she said.
“He explained that at that time, he never thought he’d actually get a chance to be with me, so it was a rather stupid out-of-the-moment decision.”
“He told me that it was my best friend who suggest never talking about it again, though (he wanted to tell me way earlier).”
She isn’t sure how to feel, but she does know that she’s upset and feels like her boyfriend and best friend stabbed her in the back.
“A lot of my strong feelings are probably fuelled by the fact that my best friend has always been the more popular one out of us two and could easily get whoever she wanted to like her,” she continued.
“She has never been after someone I was into before, though. But I can’t help feeling crushed by the fact that I can’t ever have anyone or anything just for myself.”
She’s left wondering how she should address the former hookup situation with her boyfriend and best friend since lately she’s not been speaking to them as she sorts through her emotions.
How can she get over knowing that her best friend and her boyfriend used to be a thing?
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