She Won’t Go To Her Friend’s Wedding Because Her Friend Is Marrying A Man Who Left His Wife And Kids For Her
Many of us have been in the uncomfortable position of not liking one of our best friend’s partners.
One woman refuses to go to her friend’s wedding because she’s marrying a man who left his wife and kids for her.
She’s 20 years old and has a friend named Kate, who is 19. They’re not incredibly close and have only been friends for two years, but they met through other people and have gotten along very well.
“She seemed really cool, and we shared a lot of interests and morals, or so I thought,” she said.
Not long ago, Kate started telling her and other friends about how she was seeing a guy. She wouldn’t give them many details about her relationship and dodged a few questions, but they were all very supportive and happy for her.
Then, a couple of days ago, Kate revealed to her and a group of friends over the phone that she was engaged to this man and could no longer avoid not telling them about who he was.
Kate explained that she met this man through some friends, and they instantly had chemistry. Then, Kate told stories about how she would sneak through his window to see him, and she assumed that was because Kate’s fiancé lived with his parents or roommates.
However, Kate then mentioned that one night the man’s wife caught them together, and that was when he officially decided to leave his wife and kids for her.
This really upset her, as she’s told Kate in the past how much she hates cheaters.
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“After the story, I spoke up, telling her that I didn’t feel comfortable attending a wedding when I knew she was the reason some children lost their father,” she remembered.
“She and the rest of the girls started to chew me out.”
They all started telling her she was horrible and wrong for not supporting Kate and her fiancé. She stood by her morals and told them she didn’t want to celebrate a marriage that was tearing apart a family before hanging up on them.
She left their text group chat but still received texts from everyone, including Kate, telling her that the man leaving his wife was not that big of a deal. They all believe she should still attend the wedding.
Now, she’s debating whether or not she should. On the one hand, she wants to keep her friends, but she also can’t stand the thought of watching Kate and her fiancé say “I do,” knowing all the heartbreak that happened behind the scenes.
“No matter how I spin it, it feels wrong,” she added.
Should she go to the wedding?
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