She Agreed To Meet Up With Her Ex And Have Dinner With Him, But Ever Since, He’s Been Stalling While Trying To Get Her To Sleep Over At His House Instead
This 28-year-old girl split up with her 29-year-old ex-boyfriend back in November. He was actually the one who dumped her, and he did it over text.
That September, they had gone on a break after she discovered that he had sent some flirtatious messages to a girl on social media.
Everything went down at a time when she was struggling with a few other huge issues in her life, but since breaking up with her ex, she’s worked incredibly hard to heal and make herself a better person.
She also has come to realize that the end of their relationship was hardly her fault, yet she accepts that she could have handled things differently back then.
Throughout the last couple of months, she and her ex were not in contact with one another, but he just reached out to her to try to reconnect.
She did say yes to getting dinner with him, as she felt that they were suddenly back on good terms and it would be nice to catch up with him.
“But every time I’ve asked or brought it up, he seems to drag his feet or has some weird excuse,” she explained.
“I would’ve just dropped it, but he also tried to get me to come to sleep over. I brushed it off and gently told him no both times, as I hadn’t seen him in months and didn’t think it would be a good idea.”
This was about 3 weeks ago, and ever since, she hasn’t tried to speak to him. But, a few nights ago, she texted her ex to see what he was up to and if he would like to hang out the following day.
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Instead of replying back, he kind of vanished. But, eventually, he replied that he wasn’t feeling alright though they could meet up soon.
Unfortunately, this is the exact same thing that he has been saying to her when she does try to follow through with dinner plans.
She then decided to tell him this: “It’s just confusing. You said you wanted to, but every time I ask, you say “we can soon” and it just seems like you’re hesitant. But then you’ve asked me to come over late at night, I guess, just to hook up. That’s [terrible], and you’re better than that. I deserve better than that, and you know it.”
After calling him out, she sent him a different text message to apologize, but that she wanted to make it clear that he wasn’t making her feel great.
“I don’t want him to just want to see me for a hookup, he’s never been like that,” she clarified. “But he has been hot and cold with how he treats me. He hasn’t responded to either.”
“Now, I am not looking for advice on detaching from my ex, blocking, etc. I don’t want him back, but I’m not opposed to the idea if things got better. I understand he isn’t in a healthy place, but I still care about him, and I don’t know what the hell is going on with him or what he wants from me.”
“Anyways, I just want to know, was my text to him out of line or too brutal? I feel like I’m second-guessing myself, but maybe it was too harsh. Just wanted an opinion on my text to him! And how can I fix it, or what can I say to remedy the situation?”
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