He Just Found Out That His Ex-Girlfriend Secretly Had His Children Despite Being Married, And She Said She Hates Her Husband So She Wanted Her Children To Not Be Like Him
Back when this guy was in high school, he and his ex-girlfriend dated for a while before going their separate ways following graduation.
However, they ended on good terms. So, after his ex graduated from college, he met up with her again, and they wound up hooking up.
“And two years later, we did the same thing and the year after that,” he added.
That entire time, he had no clue that his ex was not taking steps to prevent a pregnancy. More importantly, he was completely unaware that his ex-girlfriend was actually married!
Yet, just last week, he just so happened to meet his ex’s three kids– who are 7, 5, and 4-years-old– as well as her husband.
Then, right after seeing the kids, he immediately had a gut feeling that the children were actually his.
“I’m stockier with typical Anglo features; meanwhile, my ex and her husband are darker and lanky,” he explained.
“Her children look like younger versions of my siblings.”
So, the very next day, he reached out to his ex-girlfriend over text and asked her point-blank if those were his kids. And to his complete surprise, his ex revealed that she did have his children!
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According to his ex, she hates her husband and has hated the guy ever since one week after they got married. But, his ex claimed to stay with her husband because he could provide more and made better financial sense as opposed to him.
She also admitted to wanting to specifically have his children since he is easygoing and free-spirited, and wanted the kids to take after him– not her husband, who is no longer “the man she fell in love with.”
“I have never shaken with rage before, but when she told me the truth, I just about crushed my phone in my hands,” he revealed.
“I have never felt so betrayed.”
His ex also claimed that she would tell her husband one day. But, until or after then, she said that she did not want him to be involved with the kids whatsoever.
Now this is obviously the most shocking and surreal experience he has ever endured. And as he tries to cope with the news, he has even considered getting himself institutionalized.
In fact, he feels like the situation is so bizarre that he is actually becoming concerned about his “grip on reality.”
All the while, he has no clue whether or not he should tell his ex-girlfriend’s husband the truth.
On the one hand, he knows that his ex was right about the fact that her husband was in a better financial situation to raise kids. His ex has also made it crystal clear that she wants him nowhere near them.
Finally, he doesn’t want his ex’s husband to think he was aware of the lie or suffer turmoil from the fallout– since the kids and his ex’s husband seem to be happy together.
Yet, on the other hand, he now feels like he has a paternal obligation to the children, even though he just found out that they existed.
“I’ve done nothing more than smile at them, but I already feel an immense love towards the kids and would be willing to take them in,” he admitted.
Still, he is worried that if he puts pressure on the situation, then his ex-girlfriend will act out. Plus, he could get left in a seriously expensive childcare situation.
“The sweet girl I knew ten years ago has been placed by a monster. And it would be hell if I shatter one man’s illusion just to be left paying for three children who don’t know I exist,” he vented.
So now, he has been left wondering whether he should tell his ex’s husband and fight for his kids or simply respect his ex-girlfriend’s wishes.
Can you imagine finding out that your ex had three of your children, raised them with a different man, and never told you? How would you cope with that news? Should his first step be to talk to a therapist and a lawyer before telling anyone anything?
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