The Cameras In Her House Don’t Work When Her Husband Is Home Alone, So She Thinks He Might Have Something To Hide
This 38-year-old woman recently got married to her husband, 43.
They moved in together, combining all of their belongings, and everything is going well so far. They have an amazing physical connection and communicate in healthy ways.
In order to feel secure, she has several cameras stationed around the house. Some of their children are too young to have cell phones, so she also has cameras so that she can stay in touch with the children and check that they’ve gotten home from school safely.
Normally, she doesn’t pay too much attention to the cameras. She had a few cameras in the house she previously lived in, but so far, she’s only had three cameras installed so far in the new house. When they bought this house, it already had a doorbell camera, so she didn’t have to worry about buying one.
Her husband works from home, and for the first several weeks of living in the new house, everything was normal, and all of the cameras seemed to work well. The doorbell camera also seemed to be functioning as it was supposed to and captured every movement it picked up on.
“The first week my husband was solo in the house, and the first day the kids go off to school, when they come home, through the front door, there is no Ring notification,” she said.
“The timeline glitches as if the shots were deleted. He is the main Ring account holder, and I’m shared. I can’t delete anything.”
“That evening, I mentioned it, and he got defensive, so I initially dropped it. I wouldn’t have married him if I didn’t trust him. I was just curious about what happened.”
In a later discussion, she told him that she didn’t ask him about the Ring camera because she was accusing him of doing something sneaky, but she emphasized that something weird was definitely going on with the camera. They both decided to drop the subject from then on.
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On her own, she wanted to keep track of any “‘glitches'” that she came across on the Ring camera. It occurred several more times, coincidentally only when her husband was the only one home.
Sometimes, she asked the children what he seemed to be up to when they’d get home from school, and they said he was usually either playing video games or having a work meeting.
“Today, around 2 p.m., I go to check the garage camera to see if he’s left the garage open, which he does frequently, and we end up with exorbitant power bills. So, I remind him to shut the door. I get the error ‘live view failed.’ I try the front of the garage. Same error. I screenshot and send them to him, asking if he knows why they aren’t working. He loses his mind. Starts saying I’m accusing him of hiding things. Now, I don’t THINK he’s cheating…,” she explained.
When her husband isn’t the only one home, the cameras work as normal. Her husband is the only one who can access the cameras, and she can only access the Ring camera.
“If he isn’t hiding anything and not messing with the cameras, why the defense? I didn’t ask what he was doing, but I did insinuate that I thought he had something to do with it,” she shared.
Even though she’s understandably concerned about why her husband seems to get angry when she asks about the camera glitches, she does know that Ring cameras can glitch all on their own.
She learned from IT professionals that bandwidth could be a part of the issue, and evidently, her husband playing video games while she’s trying to see the cameras could be causing some technical problems.
She genuinely believed her husband when he attempted to make it clear that he wasn’t doing anything sketchy.
Also, she doesn’t want to go to more drastic measures like putting a nanny camera in their house. She is not interested in tracking her husband’s every movement because she doesn’t think that’s a healthy road to go down.
In her mind, the cameras she already has in the house are there for security reasons and nothing more.
Now, she feels a bit bad that she was making it seem like she thought her husband was cheating, and she doesn’t want him to feel like she doesn’t have trust in their marriage.
From her husband’s perspective, he was upset with her because she made it seem like he was purposely doing something to the cameras and that he was the culprit for the camera glitches in the first place, even though he still claims that he didn’t do anything and has no idea what is happening to the cameras.
Do you think she was wrong to ask her husband why the cameras don’t work when he’s the only one at home?
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