He’s Been Constantly Cheating On His Fiancée, But He’s Thinking That Maybe He Should Stop For The Benefits It Will Give Him
This 30-year-old man has been with his fiancée for seven years in total, and he ended up proposing to her after three years of dating.
They have a house together, two cars, and a son who is now three-years-old. From the start, he has always felt that he and his fiancée weren’t the best match.
“… She wasn’t quite what I had hoped for in a partner, but it worked, and we were happy,” he explained.
“There were some frustrations, but generally, we were happy. Since we got engaged, though, things went downhill. The effort dropped off completely, probably from both of us.”
“A few months after, I became emotionally involved with someone from work, and we kissed on a few occasions. I owned up to it (not the kissing), and we spoke about why it happened and the issues we had.”
So, he really only half owned up to cheating on her, and he says that after their talk, things did not change between them at all. They kept on having the same old problems.
Several months went by, and his fiancée got pregnant with their son. Right after he got the news, he ended up kissing another woman after having a few drinks, and things went further this time.
He wound up sending some steamy messages to this other woman in addition to kissing her. If you think he stopped there, he didn’t.
This leads us to now; he has been cheating with a girl he went to school with and always had a crush on.
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He says the cheating has only been emotional so far, though they have discussed being together and have sent some steamy messages back and forth.
He also has been sending steamy texts and photos to another girl that he works with too. But there’s a second girl he works with, and he is full-blown cheating with her on a regular basis.
“We have both spoken about leaving partners and being together,” he said. “We have a lot in common; we seem to just understand one another, and we’re very happy in each other’s companies. We want to be together and have discussed time scales for that.”
“I’ve spoken to my partner about the issues, and we’ve essentially agreed that we’re fundamentally different and want different things from a relationship.”
“Should I work on my existing relationship for the benefit of my son, our home, and our finances, or face that it just isn’t working? I’m ashamed of the person I have become in the sense of cheating, I was also so against it.”
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