Her Sister-In-Law Coordinated A Second Entrance And A Surprise Dance For The Flower Girls At Her Wedding Behind Her Back, But When She Accused Her Sister-In-Law Of Trying To Make The Day All About Her Nieces, She Was Called A Bridezilla
Have you ever seen someone get a little too excited about their young daughter being someone’s flower girl in their wedding?
One woman is furious with her sister-in-law, who secretly planned for her daughters to take over the spotlight as her flower girls on her wedding day.
She recently got married, and before her wedding, she asked her sister-in-law if her two daughters would like to be the flower girls in her ceremony. Her sister-in-law was thrilled, and the kids seemed excited as well.
But then, two months before the wedding, some issues with her sister-in-law began to arise.
Her sister-in-law contacted her amidst all the wedding planning chaos and asked if her daughters should have two different dresses for their “two flower girl entrances.” Her sister-in-law somehow assumed that not only would her daughters be walking down the aisle during the ceremony, but they would also get a special entrance into the wedding reception.
“I told my sister-in-law that the kids will only have one entrance, as our flower girls, during my wedding ceremony,” she recalled.
“My sister-in-law looked upset and said they must walk during the dinner reception, too. I am not the confrontational type, so I asked my husband to tell his sister that her daughters would only walk down the aisle once. My husband agreed and told his sister, [and] my sister-in-law disapproved.”
Her sister-in-law told her husband he should allow her daughters to be featured twice on their wedding day since he was their “only beloved uncle,” and they’d never have the chance to be flower girls again.
After a bit of back and forth, she figured her sister-in-law had backed down, and the wedding would go as planned. On her wedding day, her ceremony was beautiful, and everything, including the flower girls’ entrance, went swimmingly.
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But then, as she and her husband were waiting to enter their reception, she discovered that her sister-in-law had gone behind her back to arrange a specially announced entrance for her daughters first.
“The flower girls entered the dinner reception laying out a fresh set of rose petals down the aisle once more,” she recalled.
“While I was surprised, I was not angry because it was a special day, and I did not want to let bad emotions ruin the day.”
However, she became angry when she found out her sister-in-law had also gotten the DJ to announce her daughters would be performing a “special dance” as a gift to their aunt and uncle. While that may sound sweet, it happened right when she and her husband were supposed to have their first dance.
“Her daughters danced on the stage while my husband and I had our first dance on the side,” she explained.
“After the wedding, I told my husband how upset I was at his sister and said she was trying to make the day about her kids. I confronted my sister-in-law about this, but she shrugged it off and said they were just kids and I [was] being a bridezilla.”
Was she wrong to be mad at her sister-in-law, or was her anger valid?
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