His Girlfriend Went To Her Company Christmas Party Then Wound Up Inviting One Of Her Male Coworkers Over And Slept In The Same Bed As The Guy
A 26-year-old man has a 25-year-old girlfriend, and up until recently, they had a completely wonderful relationship. They basically never get into fights with each other, and they’re always happy.
They’ve been dating since he was 16 and she was 15, so they’ve been together for a whole decade.
They did take one 6 month break when they were in college to see what it was like to be apart for the first time, and then they got back together.
Anyway, a few weeks ago, his girlfriend attended her company Christmas party.
“…She says she got really drunk and ended up getting a taxi back with a guy she works with as he lives fairly close,” he explained.
“He said ‘why don’t we just go back to yours’ and then they ended up chatting in the living room for a bit.”
“She said she doesn’t remember specific details but they ended up going to her room together and sharing her bed rather than him staying downstairs.”
“She says nothing happened and (maybe stupidly) I believe her that nothing happened.”
Oh, boy, right? He mentioned that he has never had an issue with his girlfriend cheating on him before, and he feels very uneasy about what went down after that company Christmas party.
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His girlfriend did say sorry and insisted it was nothing but a “mistake” but then she admitted to him it also is a “red flag” so she asked for some space to consider everything.
“I also want space to think about if I want to be with someone that could do that to me but I find it really hard when I didn’t choose this situation and didn’t want it to happen to us,” he said.
Throughout the past several days, he and his girlfriend both have come to the conclusion that their relationship is just too comfortable, and something new needs to happen here.
He’s not sure what this means for their relationship, and all he wants is to still be with his girlfriend.
He’s having a tough time trying to figure out what he wants and what his needs are, especially since he wants to continue the way that it was before things went south over that Christmas party.
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