She Was Watching A TikTok Video Rating Finance Bro Dating Profiles And That’s How She Found Out Her Boyfriend Was Cheating On Her: He Even Put Up Photos With Her In Them
New York, New York. A young woman met someone while she was on vacation one summer, and they really hit it off.
She hung out with him for her whole vacation, and she thinks she fell in love with him as soon as she saw him.
“Everything was so magical,” she explained. “He was living in Florida for the summer and moving to NYC for his first Wall Street job (a man on Wall Street cheating on his girlfriend, shocker right?) up until then, we spent the first three months of our relationship back forth between Florida and Missouri every single week.”
“We were constantly catching planes to spend every second together we could before he moved to New York.”
Her boyfriend ended up moving to New York City this past September, and she hopped a plane to see him every other week.
Around a month after her boyfriend moved, he revealed to her that he was doubting their relationship and feeling bad because his job was consuming everything he had and he felt he could no longer give her a lot of attention.
She was understandably upset but understood where he was coming from and figured this meant their relationship was coming to an end.
She even told him that she was completely ok with him meeting new people and getting out in New York City; she just wanted him to let her know if that’s really where he was coming from with all this.
“12 hours later he sent me a very long text saying that he didn’t care about the distance, he knew I was his life partner and he wanted to be with me for the rest of his life,” she said.
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“He told me he was in a high-stress situation at work and he overreacted, and apologized a lot (something he does not do often).”
Their relationship continued on as normal from there, and she flew out to see him twice more, thinking things were back to being perfect.
She then began a new job that allowed her to move to New York, and she was finally getting ready to move there next month to live with him.
She was changing her whole life around for her boyfriend, but she was happy to do that because she was head over heels in love.
Not too long ago, she happened to be on TikTok watching a video a woman made where she rated different dating profiles of finance bros.
“You’ll never guess what I see on this viral TikTok— my boyfriend’s profile,” she continued.
“He even put a picture of him and me on his profile. I immediately messaged the tik toker, hoping she would reply since she was pretty big on the app.”
“Thankfully, she did. She sent me all of the screenshots of his profile and gave me all the incriminating evidence she had. I then FaceTimed him immediately, to which he made it sound like the profile was “old,” and there must have been some mistake and he didn’t delete his profile right.”
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The thing is, the location he had set on his dating profile clearly showed his apartment’s address, so there was no way it was an old profile.
Also, remember he put up photos on his dating profile that included her, so that’s also how she knew there was no way the profile wasn’t current.
Her boyfriend hung up the phone when she confronted him and refused to speak to her for several days after that.
Eventually, she finally heard from him. He sent her a super long text message owning up to what he did.
He said that he did get a dating profile as soon as he moved to the city, and he was only doing it to see what else was out there.
He tried to tell her that he only was swiping on girls “for fun” and that he didn’t text that many of them anyway.
She was completely crushed.
“How did this seemingly perfect man break my heart like this?” she asked. “I gave him everything I had to put into our relationship. My time, energy, not to mention thousands of dollars on trips. He told me it had “nothing to do with me,” and he “meant everything he said” to me.”
“How could someone do this to a person? How can you text other girls and at the same time tell me you love me? Why wouldn’t he have just broken up with me when he had the chance.”
The worst part was the week after this all went down, she was already supposed to fly to New York City to celebrate her birthday with him.
She had already paid for her tickets and taken the time off work, so she couldn’t back out at that point.
“The angel of a woman, the tik toker, and I became very close and kept in touch during this whole escapade,” she wrote.
“She told me to come to NY, stay with her and her roommates and we would go out in New York anyways.”
“So—I got on a plane and met three amazing girls I met on the internet and had the time of my life. I am so thankful that I met them and consider them close friends now.”
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She blocked her now ex-boyfriend from being able to see her having a good time in the city without him, but this is what’s currently eating away at her; they never officially broke up.
He never wished her happy birthday, and she deleted him Snap and phone number.
She’s really considering sending him a scathing text message to let him know just how badly he hurt her, but she doesn’t think he will even care.
He never said sorry; he just tried to cover up what he was doing and made it out to be no big deal at all.
How would you feel in this situation?
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