His Ex-Girlfriend’s Stalker Is Trying To Reach Out To Him

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A 36-year-old man was in a relationship with a woman the same age as him, though they broke up half a year ago.

They were together for 3 years, but since the breakup, he hasn’t spoken to her at all and that’s currently the case.

While he was with her though, he learned a pretty dark thing about his ex: she has a man who has been stalking her pretty consistently.

“She has a stalker who used to go to her house uninvited and leave her notes on her windowsill,” he explained.

“This started before she and I met, and I think it stopped back in 2020 when he showed up while I was at her house. I told him to leave and hadn’t heard from him, or about him until today.”

He did read around 10 of the notes that his girlfriend’s stalker left for her, and everything in the notes was just downright creepy and bizarre.

His ex always maintained that this guy was harmless, though he’s not so certain about that.

Earlier today, he was shocked to discover that his ex’s stalker was trying to reach out to him through social media.

His ex’s stalker has never attempted to get in touch with him before, and he has also never made an effort to reach out to him either since there’s no reason to.

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“I haven’t opened the message he sent me today,” he said. “Based on the messages he wrote my ex, I don’t think it’s worth reading anything he’s written to me.”

“However, just receiving that message has left me with a sinking feeling in my stomach all day. I’m not usually the type to ignore stuff, so it’s hard for me to just block him and do nothing.”

His ex never wanted to share with anyone except for him that she had a stalker, and he’s really the only single person in her life who knows about this.

Well, he’s no longer in her life, but you understand the dilemma.

He’s considering calling his sister to ask her what to do, though he is worried he will be going against his ex’s wishes in sharing such personal information.

He’s also thinking it might be worth reaching out to his ex to tell her about the messages.

“I’m worried about her safety but is that an overreaction?” he wondered. “She used to always tell me I was overreacting when he left her notes in the past.”

“Maybe if I tell her, it will just give her a sinking feeling too, and I don’t want to put that on her. I don’t know what to do.”

Do you think he should tell his ex about her stalker sending him messages?

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