His Girlfriend Wants To Continue Dating Him, Yet Be Allowed To Kiss Other Guys When She Feels Like It
A 32-year-old guy is in a relationship with his 29-year-old girlfriend, and he has been for close to a whole decade now.
He’s been dating his girlfriend for 8 long years, and he describes their relationship as nothing less than flawless.
A day ago, though, she sat him down and told him something that ruined the picture-perfect image he did have of them being together.
“…Yesterday, she asked how I would feel if we would allow each other to explore other people if a ‘certain rare situation’ would arise,” he explained.
“She pretty much said she wants us both to be able to flirt and maybe kiss someone in the heat of the moment and not have to feel guilty about it.”
“She said she doesn’t want to actively search for it, but if the occasion ever arose, be able to do it. I asked what she was missing, and she explained she wants to feel ‘wanted now we are still young, hot and pretty.’”
As his girlfriend was unpacking all of this, she began sobbing and admitting it was a hard thing for her to even question him about.
His girlfriend also mentioned that she has no interest in her desires getting in the way of them being together and breaking them up and that she is all-in on them before all of this.
He honestly could not even believe that his girlfriend was saying all of this to him, especially considering that she is extremely introverted.
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Additionally, his girlfriend has sworn that she does not have any interest in guys or them paying her compliments.
“She did, however, lose quite some weight over the past two years, making her look even prettier and getting her more attention,” he said.
He had no problem informing his girlfriend that he doesn’t want her to be able to kiss other guys when she feels like it. Although she seemed quite let down by his answer, a few hours after their conversation, she once again said to him that she’s invested in their relationship.
He can’t help but feel strange and envious that she asked this of him, and it also makes him doubt their relationship.
“My girlfriend that was never really interested in other people, now all of the sudden she is interested in other men and also wants to engage physically with them,” he continued.
“A few days ago, she mentioned that some good-looking guy at work told her that he was unhappy in his relationship and that he was scared that his girlfriend was pregnant.”
“I did not think much of it back then, but now I’m thinking, why would a colleague tell such a personal thing, was he hitting on her? Also, there is an upcoming work party that he organized. This feels like a red flag.”
Dumping his girlfriend is the last thing that he wants to do, but he’s hesitant about how she’s going to feel a few years down the line if she’s already saying she wants to do what she wants with other guys.
Do you think this is a red flag or a dealbreaker?
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