It’s Been Years Since Her Boyfriend Has Dated His Ex, Yet This Girl Won’t Stop Begging Him For A Second Chance
Back when a girl and her boyfriend were seniors in college, they began spending time together and they eventually ended up dating one another after a few years of just being friends.
Her boyfriend has revealed to her that before he began a relationship with her, he was dating his ex, who cheated on him with a few guys.
“She was his first true love and he wanted to marry her once he became financially independent,” she explained.
“Back then, some of his friends warned him that she was fooling around with other guys too but he didn’t believe them.”
“After seeing it himself, he was heartbroken, and when he asked her she lied to his face that she was trying to get rid of them and that it was only one-sided and he believed her.”
Sometime later, her boyfriend did come to realize what was truly going on, and he broke up with his ex.
His ex then started seeing one of his friends who she was already seeing on the side while they were together.
It was incredibly hard for her boyfriend to gather up the strength to move past so much hurt, yet he managed to do just that.
2 years after dumping his ex, this girl shockingly reached out to him wanting forgiveness. Her boyfriend never replied back, as he wasn’t feeling up to forgiving her or maintaining contact with her either.
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It’s now been 4 years since her boyfriend has been in a relationship with his ex, and one month since she’s been official with him…
…Though his ex nonstop reaches out to him begging for a second chance.
“The problem is that now even after so many years she still keeps messaging him and asks to be back together,” she said.
“Her reasons for cheating include ‘she was not in the right mind at the time’ and that ‘if he really loved her, he should give her another chance’ that ‘she would be faithful to him and do whatever he wants’ and ‘she cannot live without him.'”
Although her boyfriend does not reply to his ex, and he even blocks her, she won’t quit. Instead, she makes new accounts and the messages keep on coming.
She does believe her boyfriend when he says that he has no interest in entertaining a second chance for his ex, but it still bothers her that this girl can’t accept he has moved on.
“I did ask him not to contact her but he wants to try to reason with her once more directly and make her understand,” she added.
“He is wondering if he should get someone from her family involved to keep an eye on her.”
Her boyfriend and his ex are from a tiny little town. If he is rude to his ex it will blow back on his family, who still lives in that town along with his ex’s family members.
Additionally, her boyfriend is concerned for his ex’s well-being and doesn’t want to do anything to hurt her or make her hurt herself.
She’s left trying to figure out how she can get through to her boyfriend that it’s not his job to make sure his ex is ok anymore.
Do you think it’s a good idea for her boyfriend to get in contact with someone from his ex’s family to help make sure she stops sending the messages?
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