She Just Figured Out Who Her Boyfriend Slept With Before He Started Dating Her, And She’s Not Happy About It
A 33-year-old woman has been dating her 34-year-old boyfriend for close to 2 years now, but she never knew about who her boyfriend slept with before he started dating her.
She went out not too long ago with one of her boyfriend’s friends, and this friend of his accidentally slipped up and told her about who this girl was.
Her boyfriend’s friend said that she knows the girl he slept with, and because her boyfriend has very, very few female friends, she knows exactly who it is.
The process of elimination here was not hard, and she’s honestly not happy about this girl having slept with her boyfriend.
“He’s not seen her for about 7 or 8 months and obviously at the time I didn’t think anything of it because I assumed they had always been “just friends,” she explained.
“She blocked me on social media at the time and I thought that was odd, but now it kind of makes sense.”
“I saw him looking at one of her social media accounts this weekend and normally I wouldn’t have thought anything of it, but now that I knew they used to sleep together, I feel a bit weird about it.”
She’s not sure if she should confront her boyfriend about creeping on this girl on social media, or about him having slept with this girl.
She believes that bringing all of this up won’t result in her winning in this situation, and aside from this new piece of information, her life with her boyfriend has been nothing but joyful for her.
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She and her boyfriend don’t have any problems in their relationship, and she doesn’t think her boyfriend is still in contact with this other girl or at risk of sleeping with her again, but it rubs her the wrong way that she has met this girl before and her boyfriend never mentioned hooking up with her.
If she does dig and ask her boyfriend outright if he slept with this girl, she knows he will own up to it, but she isn’t positive it’s a good idea to ask and confirm this.
“What happens if he meets up with her again? It’ll be totally innocent but I imagine it won’t feel nice for me,” she said.
“I feel like such a hypocrite because I’ve introduced him to a friend I used to date (and I told him) and I’m still in touch with other people I’ve dated. But I can’t stop feeling icky about this.”
She’s just having a hard time processing everything and moving on, even though this is clearly in her boyfriend’s past.
How can she get over knowing who her boyfriend was with before he started dating her?
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