Her Fiancé Told Her He Will End Up Liking Her More If She Gets Rid Of The Fat On Her Stomach
A 26-year-old woman is currently engaged to her 29-year-old fiancé, and he recently pointed out something about her body that was pretty unkind.
Not too long ago, her fiancé told her that he will end up liking her more if she gets rid of the fat on her stomach.
The thing is, she’s about 5’1″ and 112 pounds, so she’s by no means overweight. Her fiancé is pretty obsessed with going to the gym, and he has some serious abs because of that.
When he did make the comment about her needing to lose the fat on her stomach, he also said that her belly looked pretty “bloated.”
At first, he hid behind telling her that losing the fat and going to the gym would be the best thing for her health, but then he said that he’s going to the gym to make himself more attractive for her, and so she should do the same for him.
“I would have understood that he wants me to exercise for my health, but he made more emphasis on my physical appearance,” she explained.
She has always felt happy with how she looks and comfortable in her own skin…up until those words came out of his mouth.
Her fiancé did say that he is attracted to her enough already, but if she does lose the fat on her stomach, he will end up liking her more.
“And so I asked him if would he like me more if I lose my belly flat or would he love me less if I don’t,” she said.
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“He said that he won’t love me less if I don’t, but he would like me more if I do because, according to him, he will feel like I am putting effort into making myself look good for him.”
“Not only that, I asked him if he would still love me if I gained weight after giving birth in the future. He said he still would but suggests I work out and lose pregnancy weight in the future. He asked if I would let myself gain more weight and not care about it and said that I should still care about my physical appearance even after giving birth.”
She’s left feeling like her fiancé is becoming more and more invested in her appearance, and she’s concerned that he’s definitely going to stop being attracted to her sometime in the future; either if she doesn’t get rid of the fat on her stomach or if she ends up having a baby and not losing weight afterward.
“How should I react to this?” she wondered. “What do I do? What do you make of this?”
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