She Caught Feelings For The Guy Her Roommate Was Seeing Not Too Long Ago, And Her Roommate Is Not Happy
A 22-year-old girl has a roommate who is 19, whom she has lived with for close to one year so far. Her roommate isn’t just someone she lives with, though; her roommate was her friend first.
Around 10 months back, her roommate was dating this guy named Callum. Her roommate spent about a month or 2 with him, and she did bring him back to hang out at their place multiple times.
“They ended up not working out, and he stopped replying to her altogether,” she explained.
“It wasn’t until they had stopped talking that she had realized how much she liked him and was pretty upset, crying over him for a while.”
“She told me that it was partly her fault for not telling him about her feelings and pursuing him. I tried my best to support her during this time, but she mostly likes to keep to herself when upset, so we probably only had 1 conversation about it.”
After her roommate and Callum broke up, Callum started dating another girl seriously, and her roommate found other guys to date.
Not too long ago, Callum and his new girlfriend split up, and she began chatting with him. At first, their conversations were simply about mental health and helping one another.
Her roommate was aware that she was speaking to Callum, and although her roommate was not thrilled about it, her roommate said it was all ok.
“My roommate and Callum start becoming friends again, and we all hang out a few times,” she said.
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“Until this last weekend when he and I had a few too many drinks and ended up kissing. I told my roommate about it the next morning, and she said that although she did feel uncomfortable about the situation, it was otherwise fine.
“A few days later, he comes over to our house. We hang out in my room, and he ends up sleeping over.”
Her roommate began ignoring some messages she sent to her, so she knew something had to be up.
She attempted to speak to her roommate, and her roommate revealed that she really was not accepting of her starting a thing with Callum.
“She told me that she was hurt that I even went for him after seeing how she had been upset about him,” she continued.
“And that she didn’t want me to stop seeing him because of her but out of ‘my own volition.’ I have only just started seeing Callum, so I am not sure how things with him will progress, but I also don’t want to hurt my roommate in the process.”
“I do think that there is potential between him and me, though, and I have started to get feelings.”
She doesn’t think it’s right for her roommate to try to get her to stop seeing Callum, but she is concerned that if she keeps seeing him, things with her roommate will go south.
Do you think she should pick Callum or her roommate?
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