“I don’t know why, but I really, really don’t feel comfortable with the kid sleeping with us. Of course, if he suddenly feels the urge to walk in the middle of the night and sleep with us, I really wouldn’t mind.”
“But the fact that she wants us to plan this vacation with him in the same bed as us… To me, it doesn’t feel right, and I don’t know why but it ruined my whole mood in regard to this trip.”
He’s not really sure if he’s being too dramatic here, but he is really sure that this is bothering him like crazy.
This is a major step that he’s not prepared for just yet. He is planning to sit his girlfriend down and have an extensive conversation with her about this, but he’s concerned that she won’t understand where he is coming from and instead will misinterpret his feelings to mean he doesn’t want her son around.
“I just don’t want to sleep in the same bed as him and her,” he clarified. “I know how stupid this sounds; believe me, you don’t have to tell me. But any kind of suggestion or insight would be appreciated.”
What kind of advice do you have for him? Is there a way for him to gently break this news to his girlfriend in a way she won’t get offended by?
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