His Friend Lied Just To Get Him To Sleep With Her Because She Heard That He Was Good In Bed From His Ex-Girlfriend And Then This Girl Tried To Say He Can’t Tell Their Friends What Happened Between Them Because Nice Guys Never Kiss And Tell
Last night, a 25-year-old guy went out on the town with a couple of his friends, and he’s newly single after finding out 5 months ago that his ex-girlfriend cheated on him.
Yesterday was the very first time that he felt as if he could get over her, and he was looking forward to getting to spend time with 2 of his single female friends in his circle.
1 girl, in particular, he felt that he was really vibing with, and he did make a couple of moves on her that night, but she didn’t seem that into him after all.
As the night came to an end, he and his friends all got into the same car to head home, and they were all pretty drunk except for their designated driver.
He ended up offering to help walk the other single girl in his friend group who he wasn’t hitting on up to her apartment since she was quite wasted and had to make it up a couple of flights of stairs.
“When we got to the stairs, she was like, “okay, I’m going to need some help up the stairs,” and in my drunk brain, I was like, she wants me to pick her up and carry her,” he explained.
“So I threw her over my shoulder and carried her up the stairs. From then, it was on like Donkey Kong. Sparing you some details, I put her down, and she lunged at me. She asks me to stay the night.”
Now, he never casually hooks up with any girl because he isn’t interested in getting physical if it’s not going to lead to a serious relationship.
He then let her know that if she wanted to hook up with him, he wanted to at least take her out on a proper date afterward.
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“She, while kissing my neck, said, “what are you going to make a girlfriend out of me?” I was like, not right this second, but I’d like to get to know you better one on one and see if we’d both like to take it there,” he said.
“She enthusiastically said yes, and I texted my friends and told them she was going to let me crash at her place.”
The following morning, everything between them was pretty lovey-dovey, and they had made plans to grab lunch with their friends later on, though he suggested maybe skipping out on that and going out on a date instead.
She seemed very excited about that, but after they spent some more time together and hooked up again, it was like a switch flipped.
Suddenly, she blurted out that she wasn’t trying to find a serious relationship and that she even was already seeing another guy.
She also mentioned that she wasn’t exactly serious with this other guy but that he would be upset that she slept with someone else.
“I’m furious at this point, asking why she would do this to someone she calls a friend, and she said that my ex (who I dated for 2 years, the one who cheated on me) said I was a good lay with a large, well you know,” he continued.
“I am…furious at this point. It hurt so much when she dropped the first bomb on me, but then to bring my ex into it. I was absolutely devastated. I am still devastated.”
He quickly left her apartment and got a ride back to his own place. As he was sitting in the car headed home, this girl is texting him and saying he can’t tell their friends about what happened because she’s afraid that the guy she’s seeing will find out.
“She’s telling me, “Nice guys don’t kiss and tell.” “Show me some respect, please,” he added.
“I just don’t feel like doing anything. I can’t even muster up a response to her because I feel so defeated. I feel used. I’ve been there for her through thick and thin. I considered her a close friend, and now I don’t know… if this was a Tinder hook-up, I’d just move on, but this is a friend I trusted and confided in.”
Do you think he should say anything to her eventually, or should he just stick with saying nothing to her and cutting her out of his life as a friend?
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