He And His Wife Decided Over Christmas It’s Time For A Divorce, But Then His Wife Found Out That She’s Pregnant, Yet He Still Wants To Leave Her

Viacheslav Yakobchuk - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Viacheslav Yakobchuk - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

A 29-year-old guy has been with his 27-year-old wife for a little less than a decade, and they tied the knot less than 2 years ago.

He and his wife met when they were both back in college, and since then, they have gone on to be one another’s first serious relationship, as well as the first time they each experienced falling in love.

He really does still love his wife, but as the years have gone on, he’s come to realize they just are not compatible.

Additionally, he’s finding himself growing more and more resentful of his wife too.

“We only started living together after marriage, and the true cracks have started to show; my wife has never had any friends, whereas I have always had a group of close friends since primary school,” he explained.

“Some of the issues we have are she doesn’t want me going to see my friends more than once every 1/2 months as I should be licking to spend time with her over my friends. This is the same with my parents as I should be picking to spend time with her over my mum and dad.”

“If I do go out, I have a strict curfew, and she will show up to where I am if I haven’t replied to her messages within 20/30 mins.”

Another major issue in their relationship comes down to the bedroom. He’s pretty high-drive in this regard, and his wife is not.

This has caused his wife to say she’s only serving his needs and isn’t interested in being intimate with him anymore.

Viacheslav Yakobchuk – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

It’s also worth noting that he and his wife get into blow-out fights, and he can’t help but become completely and utterly livid when they do disagree.

Over the last couple of months, their fighting has turned so venomous and destructive that his wife has begun screaming at him in front of his loved ones and family members too.

Now, his family pretty much hates his wife, and his friends never want to come to his house to hang out with him because his wife has freaked out one too many times in front of them.

He’s left feeling like all he and his wife do is butt heads and that they are just polar opposites.

“We decided before Christmas the best thing would be a divorce, and both agreed we were too toxic and just too different as people and in what we wanted for the future,” he said.

“We went on a pre-booked holiday for New Year’s, and after we were back, we would tell our parents and finalize on next steps for a breakup.”

“1 day after coming back from holiday, she has shown me a positive pregnancy test and said it’s a miracle from God and we should stay together for the sake of our 4/5 week old baby.”

He feels like his wife is forcing him into staying with her while sweeping all of their major issues under the rug.

His wife believes a baby will just solve everything that’s wrong in their relationship, but he doesn’t want to feel obligated to stay with her just because of the baby.

His wife has also threatened to terminate her pregnancy if he still chooses to leave her, as they had previously discussed.

He honestly does still want to leave her, and he feels super guilty because of it. He loves his wife, but he knows that if he stays with her, he’s going to have no friends, no intimacy, and a super micromanaged life.

His wife isn’t the right woman for him, and he knows that in his heart.

What do you think he should do?

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