She Doesn’t Want To Let Her Boyfriend Move In With Her Because He Does Not Have A Job, Cannot Pay Any Bills, And Does Not Seem To Be Making Any Career Progress

azhurfoto - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
azhurfoto - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This woman is 30-years-old and has been dating a guy– who is 27– for nearly three years now. Throughout the years, their relationship has also been “on again” and “off again.”

“And honestly, it is beginning to show that it’s just not working,” she revealed.

Despite that, she and her boyfriend do really love each other, and she admitted that he really makes her feel safe. In life, though, it appears that they just want very different things.

For instance, she has developed a good career and currently owns a two-bedroom condo, as well as her car. So, quite frankly, she just wants a partner who is her “equal.”

And apparently, her boyfriend just is not living up to that expectation. In the past, he used to work on cars.

However, he eventually got fired for having “attitude problems” and pivoted his career– becoming a delivery driver instead.

Her boyfriend only worked as a driver until September of last year, though. And up to that point, he had been living rent-free at one of his friend’s houses.

Well, by the tail end of 2022, her boyfriend’s friend decided to sell their home and move out of state. So, her boyfriend and his cat were forced to move in with his brother and sister-in-law, and he has been living there– completely rent and bill-free– ever since.

More recently, though, her boyfriend has become pretty angry that she will not let him move in with her. But she thinks her decision is completely justified.

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After all, he cannot contribute to any of the bills. Plus, her boyfriend reportedly does not like to clean and complains whenever she asks him to help her out. Still, her boyfriend just does not understand her perspective and tries to paint her as the bad guy in the situation.

“Well, if you don’t want me at my lowest, then you don’t deserve me at my peak,” he actually tells her.

While that may be true in some relationships, though, it appears that she just has no clue what her boyfriend is doing in life. According to her, he has no education or trade skills. And even though he keeps saying that he is going to join the military, he gets rejected every time.

“He also knows I love his cat and is now threatening to get rid of the cat if I don’t let him move in,” she revealed.

Understandably, though, she is not going to let that happen. She claims to have told her boyfriend numerous times that she believes in him and his abilities. But she refuses to let him just sit around her house, eat all of her food, and do nothing all day.

So now, with her boyfriend pretty mad at her, she has been left wondering whether not letting him move in with her is the wrong thing to do or not.

Why do you think her boyfriend refuses to step up to the plate? Is it her responsibility to support him if he is not showing any willingness to help himself? Do you believe this relationship is going to last? How would you handle this situation if you were in her shoes? 

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