His Wife Had An Emotional Affair With One of Her Gaming Friends, So He Told Her To Cut Contact With The Entire Friend Group If She Wants To Repair Their Marriage, And She Accused Him of Being Unfair
This 26-year-old guy and his wife, who is 25, have been together for over five years and married for just under two years. They also have a daughter who is about to turn 1-year-old next month.
However, about a month after their daughter was born, he went back to work, and he began to feel a shift in his and his wife’s relationship.
“She became increasingly distant from me and more withdrawn. Any sort of affection stopped, and I just felt like I was worthless to her,” he recalled.
Around the same time, his wife also began spending a ton of her maternity leave time online gaming with a group of friends. Apparently, she’s known all of the friends for a few years, and they are all guys.
Now, he never had a problem with his wife doing this since he knows most of the guys in the group.
“But I felt like this group of friends was being put first before me,” he admitted.
“And at the same time, there was one person in particular from the group that she was talking to a lot of the time, which I felt uncomfortable about.”
So, he tried to confront his wife, and he was shocked when she admitted to losing feelings for him after the birth of their daughter.
Still, she claimed that she wanted to work out their relationship and assured him that nothing was going on with any of the guys from her group. His wife also urged him to just trust her.
Kawee – stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Yet, over the past couple of weeks, nothing improved or changed. That’s why he finally decided to check his wife’s messages, and he found out she had been having an emotional affair with a guy from the friend group.
He again confronted his wife, and she did not deny it. She reiterated how she had just lost feelings for him after the baby, but then, she also revealed how she had developed feelings for the other guy and “let it get out of control.”
Even so, his wife still claimed that she wanted to fix their marriage since she was worried about losing him and the family they had built. She also apologized for doing that to him.
“I’m not convinced that she’s telling the truth, but I am willing to try and rebuild our relationship for the sake of our daughter and the fact that I do still love her,” he explained.
However, he still told his wife that, in order to rebuild any form of trust, she would need him to cut contact with the entire group of friends for the foreseeable future and not contact them again.
Well, rather than understanding his perspective, his wife actually accused him of being unfair!
So now, he’s been left wondering whether forcing his wife to cut contact with her friends following the emotional affair is really unreasonable or not.
Does it sound like he is being very fair, considering the fact his wife emotionally cheated on him? Why do you think his wife wants to fix their marriage if she admittedly has feelings for another man? Do you think he should stay in this relationship?
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