Her Fiancé Purchases Gifts For His Female Dance Instructor Every Time That He Travels, And She’s Concerned There’s More Going On Here Between Them
Two years ago, this 33-year-old woman began dating a wonderful man who is now 36, and he proposed to her just a couple of months back.
Right when they initially began dating, he let her know that ballroom dancing was his hobby and that he’s very good friends with his female dance instructor.
Her fiancé’s dance instructor is married, and he is friendly with his instructor’s husband, though he is way closer to his instructor.
She has always had a bad feeling about her fiancé’s dance instructor in her gut, and she can point out a couple of instances that have not made her feel any better about the relationship her fiancé has with this woman.
The first thing that she thought was a red flag was the fact that the dance studio had an incredibly toxic culture, and it got so bad that her fiancé’s dance instructor’s husband quit, along with a few other instructors.
When her fiancé asked his dance instructor if she would like to quit and perhaps consider a change in her career, she literally said, “I will stop when you stop.”
The second red flag for her is that her fiancé travels a ton, and 90% of the time, he will come home with a present for his dance instructor. Although he says these gifts are for his instructor and her husband, too, that’s clearly not the case.
She also has witnessed some concerning behavior between her fiancé and his instructor with her very own eyes.
“I saw a few times an exchange of flirty gestures between them, raising brows up and down while locking eyes, a couple of winks here and there,” she explained.
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Most recently, her fiancé spent 10 days traveling for work, came home for 5 days, and then had to leave again to travel for his job. During the brief few days they were home, his schedule was slammed, and one night, they were supposed to meet up with some of their family members.
Earlier in the day, her fiancé finished up work early, rushed to go to his dance class, and then sent her a text from the studio saying he messed up and the dance class was later than he expected, so he was running late to spend time with their family.
“Considering that he is the most punctual, organized person I have ever known, I find that hard to believe, and I am thinking that he must have just wanted to see her, especially since he complained about her boss being around all the time he was there that they could not talk,” she said.
“It took him longer to go and come back, and we ended up being late for family and rushing to meet them, I wonder how he expected to finish his class in the first place; he would never ever consider moving it for any reason whatsoever. After class, we were checking something together on his phone, and there were text exchanges between them way after he had left the studio to come pick me up.”
Another thing that really concerns her is that she has tried to initiate some physical time for her and her fiancé, but he turned her down.
It has since been 20 days since they have done anything physical, which she does not understand at all.
“How should I approach this with him?” she wondered. “I don’t want to end up being in a dead bedroom married to a roommate who has an emotional affair on the side.”
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