His Fiancée Is A Total Party Girl, And He Feels Like He’s Not As Important To Her As Her Social Life
This 33-year-old guy has a fiancée who is 26, and they are set to get married in six months. They have been together for three years in total.
Now, he says he’s a complete homebody, whereas his fiancée is the opposite and more of a social butterfly.
He largely likes that his fiancée is so socially talented, but usually, she takes things and makes a mess of his feelings.
He often feels disrespected by her and that she cares about her social life and the parties she can go to more than she cares about him.
She also loves going out drinking for 8 to 12 hours straight every weekend, even though he has continuously asked her to come back home at a normal hour.
“We’ve had countless fights about it since she’ll even do it on weeknights and usually not come home till 2, 3, sometimes 4 a.m.,” he explained.
“I have a good crew of friends with significant others, and she’s latched on to them, as a lot of them do go to bars and drink. However, she’s quickly made a name for herself for being one of the drunkest and most “down.”
“I always thought she would appreciate me more and settle into me. It just hasn’t been the case, and when she gets drunk, she gets drunk. Only drinks wine or liquor, and her lips will be red, eyes glossy, it’s just a mess.”
Another thing that bothers him is that his fiancée will text his guy friends directly and not include him at all.
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Some of his friends have even stated that this behavior makes them uncomfortable, too. He has tried to sit his fiancée down to point out to her that it’s ruining his pride by texting his male friends like that, but she doesn’t care and keeps doing whatever she pleases.
A few evenings ago, they had some friends over at their house, and at one point, she locked herself in their master bedroom with one of her friends.
Lately, things have been decent between them, and yesterday, they hosted his mom and one of her friends at their home. As his mom was about to leave for the night, his fiancée was calling a ride before his mom could even exit their home so she could get right down to the bar with her friends.
The issue was she already had a ton to drink and kept saying she wanted to go to the bar alone and without him. He tried to say to his fiancée that they should clean up their house first before she went out, but they got into a fight about that.
She ended up leaving without him, and he sat there for the next six hours without hearing a word from her. He had no idea if she was out with his friends or who she was even out with.
“We have our wedding date in 6 months, and I’m so furious by how I’m being treated and how much of a drinker she is,” he said.
“I don’t want to be controlling, but I feel second fiddle to her social life. Sometimes, I think I’m going crazy and doubt my reactions. What’s the best approach here moving forward? How can we both improve to make this work?”
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