She Didn’t Congratulate A Family Member On Another Pregnancy Because She Thinks Their Family Is A “Hot Mess” And They’re Doing A Horrible Job Raising The Two Children They Already Have
This 30-year-old woman recently found out that one of her family members, 34, is having another baby with his wife, also 34.
The couple already have two children together, and both of their kids are under 5-years-old. In her view, they have done an awful job as parents so far.
Her family member’s wife is a stay-at-home mother but doesn’t actively parent her children. All she does is sit her children in front of the TV all day long.
“The kids aren’t in a preschool, potty trained, or verbally up to par. They’ve had CPS called on them more than once,” she said.
The couple has had a rocky relationship and marriage, and both partners have cheated on each other.
About three months ago, the two of them had an explosive argument over her family member’s wife’s cheating.
During the fight, his wife told him that she wanted to hurt herself. The argument was so intense that she had to go pick up their children so that they were away from the chaos.
Plus, the couple don’t have their finances in order. They are constantly reaching out to their parents to ask for money for necessities.
But she pointed out that they always seem to find the money to go out drinking and partying yet won’t prioritize spending that money on their children.
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“They’re basically a hot mess. My family member just told me they were expecting again. I very plainly asked, ‘How are you feeling about it?’ This was not well-received. He said, ‘You’re not happy for us. There’s going to be another baby in the family,'” she explained.
In response, she asked him if he thought he and his wife were good parents to the two children they already have, and he was furious with this.
He started saying horrible things, and they haven’t spoken to each other since. In her opinion, it’s obvious that they are awful parents.
“They aren’t providing their kids with a happy, safe family. They cannot afford another child,” she shared.
She wonders if the father of his wife’s child is from someone his wife had an affair with. In addition, she doesn’t believe that every pregnancy is a wonderful cause for celebration, but she acknowledges the baby’s innocence in this situation.
What would you have done if you were in her shoes?
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