She Confronted Her Fiancé About Liking Steamy Photos Of Other Women On Instagram, But He Just Became Defensive And Called Her A “Psycho”

Chip Chick |

Dec 1, 2023

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It’s pretty clear that social media has so many pros and cons. Something that can be considered a pro or a con is how public our actions on social media are.

For instance, if your boyfriend begins following a bunch of other women on Instagram, it can really hurt, but at least you’re able to see what’s going on there.

One woman recently confronted her fiancé after discovering he had been liking steamy photos of other women on Instagram, and he ended up gaslighting her instead of owning up to it.

She’s 24 and has been with her 25-year-old fiancé for 10 years. Six months ago, she gave birth to their daughter and has been going through a lot as she’s been dealing with postpartum depression and self-image issues.

Her insecurities became worse when she noticed that her fiancé had started following a bunch of women who posted steamy photos on Instagram.

He’s liked a few photos,” she explained.

“This made me feel very uncomfortable and very insecure, especially due to the types of pages he’s followed and liked, as they portray very unrealistic female body standards.”

She decided to sit down with her fiancé and talk to him about these social media interactions to explain how they made her feel.

She told him she felt hurt and betrayed by how he suddenly started following these women and liking their photos, as it made her feel disrespected.

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Her fiancé became very defensive and made her pull up some of the pictures he liked. Because he’s an artist and animator, he tried to convince her that he only liked the photos because of their “aesthetic.”

Then, her fiancé turned the tables and asked her about her Instagram. When she asked him to show her what it was on her Instagram account that made him uncomfortable, he couldn’t produce anything and called her a psycho.

This was when she realized that her fiancé knew he had messed up but would rather try gaslighting her than own up to his actions.

“I told him he’s emotionally immature, and I’ve approached him with something that has made me feel uncomfortable and disrespected, and he needs to take responsibility for this,” she said.

“He hasn’t even so much as apologized. Now, I’m so angry I can’t even look at him or speak to him.”

Now, she’s wondering if she did anything wrong or overreacted by having her fiancé sit down and talk to her about this issue.

Did she overreact, or are her feelings valid?

You can read the original post on Reddit here.

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