She Snooped Through Her Husband’s Phone And Caught Him Talking To Other Women Again, But He’s Calling Her An Evil Liar And Won’t Speak To Her
This 36-year-old woman is currently married with kids, and throughout her and her 35-year-old husband’s relationship, he’s always kept his cell phone on him at all times.
He only charged the device in the car and practically never left it unattended while he was at home. According to her, his phone was constantly in his pocket or his hand.
But, about two months ago, her husband happened to fall asleep on the couch – and his cell phone was left on as it was sitting on his lap.
At the time, she went to cover him with a blanket and realized the device was unlocked. Additionally, she noticed his cell phone was open to a text conversation – but the texts were colored differently than on iMessage.
“So I picked it up and looked,” she recalled.
This led her to discover that her husband had been using secret messaging apps to engage in numerous online flings with other women. In fact, after she looked through the messages, she found dozens of other girls.
Still, that wasn’t even the worst of it. Once she closed that app, she saw other apps – such as Snapchat – that her husband also used to talk to other women.
“More girls and thousands of messages, with one [he called] his love and her encouraging him to leave me and our kids behind,” she revealed.
“I lost it and woke him up for a blowout fight.”
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Upon confronting her husband, he was livid and accused her of breaking his trust. But, after a ton more heated discussions, he ultimately claimed that he wanted to stay together and make their family work.
In order to do that, she made it clear that her husband would have to get rid of the texting apps. On top of that, the other woman needed to go.
At first, things in their marriage seemed to be going well again, too. Her husband was much more affectionate at home, and their love life was more active. Even so, she was still wary of her husband and didn’t completely trust him.
More recently, she also uncovered that she had a right to be hesitant after all – since her husband had just continued talking to other women behind her back.
The truth came out for a second time when her husband fell asleep again, and she decided to go through his phone. She redownloaded the same apps he’d previously used, and on his accounts, she saw that none of his communications with that specific other woman had ever stopped.
“[The woman] was being manipulative to get him to leave. He was not telling her the truth about our situation, but sharing our kids’ names, pics, details, etc.,” she explained.
While she was combing through her husband’s phone, though, one of their kids happened to wake up – which woke him up. So, she got caught snooping, and now, he’s calling her an “evil liar!”
“I told him he can be mad. I had asked to look at his apps. He refused, and behaviors were popping up again,” she reasoned.
Despite that, her husband won’t speak to her, and she’s since been left wondering if trusting her gut and checking his phone again was really the wrong thing to do.
Does it sound like her husband will ever change? Should she leave him? What would you do?
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