You can spend years creating a life with someone and still miss the monster standing next to you. For her, one glance at her husband’s phone ripped her world apart.
What she found wasn’t another woman, but something so disturbing it turned her stomach and destroyed her marriage in an instant.
This 30-year-old woman and her 30-year-old husband have been together for 13 years. They tied the knot three years ago, and they have two kids.
Pretty recently, she and her husband hit a rocky patch in their marriage, and they have been arguing nonstop. One thing that didn’t help was that she noticed her husband was carrying his phone around with him everywhere.
Even when one of their children would get up in the middle of the night and come to their room, her husband would grab his phone and take it with him to tuck their kid back in bed.
She asked her husband about it, and he mentioned he needed his phone in case he fell asleep in their child’s room; that way, he could set an alarm for himself.
“Usually, when I have a gut feeling about possible shady things he’s doing, I’m right. Anyway, last week he didn’t take his phone and I went through it… My heart [sank] and I felt absolutely nauseated,” she explained.
“I have a sister, she is 12 years younger, she is 17 at the moment, my husband has known her since she was 3ish… My husband was talking online with someone sharing pictures he had snuck of my sister at a birthday party at our house!”
“Of her bent over or zoomed in on her [chest], as I continued to read these messages, he goes on to say he watched her get changed through the window one night while she slept over and comments about her body.”
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Oh, but it got so much worse. She then came across AI photos of her husband made of her sister without any clothes on, and that made her lose it.
She then learned that her husband had made a fake account on Snapchat to try to get her sister to add him on there. He was planning on sending her a picture of his eggplant, which he knew would be suspicious if he did it on his account with his name on it.
She is so grossed out by her husband, and she can’t help but hate him. She doesn’t see how their marriage can bounce back from all of this.
“The fact [that] he knew my sister as a CHILD and who is still a MINOR! WOULD EVER THINK OF HER THAT WAY,” she concluded.
This situation is so far beyond forgiveness and second chances. I think she should honestly get law enforcement and a lawyer involved.
I’m concered about the safety of her kids and what her husband might do to them considering how he acted about her teen sister.
She might have only hit the tip of the iceberg, and her husband could have been up to a lot more nefarious stuff. Time to move out and file for divorce ASAP.
What advice do you have for her?
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