If someone cheats on you and goes off to build a new life with that other person, the expectation is that they disappear from yours, right? In this case, that never happened.
Even years later, even with a new partner in the picture, her ex keeps finding ways to reinsert himself, and it’s getting to be disturbing.
Three years ago, this 40-year-old woman dumped her 51-year-old boyfriend following a five-year relationship, because she found out that he cheated on her.
As soon as they split up, he went right to his affair partner and started dating this girl. To this day, he’s still with his affair partner, and she’s happy that it is working out for them.
She’s moved on and found a new man, and she’s doing well in life. That’s really big of her to wish her ex well after all he put her through, isn’t it?
Anyway, since the breakup, she’s had to block him through her personal and work phones, as well as social media, because he just won’t leave her alone and move on for good, even though he’s living with his affair partner.
He still is able to reach her through landlines, Google Voice numbers, and, well, by mailing her packages to her house. Not like you can block that!
“When we were together, he always seemed fixated on his past exes. I’ve caught him more than a few times messaging them, calling them, and sending them gifts (part of the reason for breaking up),” she explained.
“And since we broke up, he has been doing the same to me. Which is why I have blocked him from everything I could. He has always denied to me, but not publicly, that AP was his current partner.”
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“I have never met or spoken to her. I have told him countless times that I am in a relationship and my current partner and I need him to leave me alone. Yesterday I received a gift that finally made me irate… for his current partner also. He sent me a ring in the mail.”
She wasted no time mailing that package directly back to her ex’s house, but she can’t believe this guy bought her a literal ring for a Christmas present!
Sure, it only cost him $65 on Amazon, but still, rings are meaningful, and it’s weird for him to have done this.
Also, he sent her a picture of the package sitting outside of her garage from a random Google Voice number, and the package had his name on it, so she has plenty of proof that it’s him sending her gifts and not some secret admirer.
She really wants to reach out to her ex’s affair partner via social media to tip her off to his antics, but she’s questioning whether that would make her a jerk or not.
“I have no idea if she knows anything about his habits when he’s drunk, how he messages his exes, goes on dating sites, etc.,” she concluded.
So, I need to know if her ex’s affair partner knew about her first before giving my opinion here. If this girl was aware that he was in a relationship, then no, let karma take its course. She shouldn’t do this girl any favors.
Or, she should have kept the package and done something diabolical, like mailed it to the affair partner with a note proposing to her.
If this girl didn’t know about her, then I think yes, she should tell her what he’s up to behind her back.
What do you think?
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By Bre Avery Zacharski
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