Her Friend Started Dating A Much Older Man When She Was Just 17 And After 4 Years Of Being Together She Found Out This Guy Secretly Has A Wife And Kids
A young woman has a friend who is 21, and back when her friend was in high school and only 17, she ended up meeting her much older boyfriend, Mark, who is 10 years older than her.
Her friend dated Mark for 4 years, and during that time, Mark never introduced her to any of his family members.
Her friend never thought this was a red flag, and she didn’t stop to think about the other red flags in their relationship either.
Mark mentioned that he had an ex-wife and that he also had kids with this woman as well.
Mark used that as an excuse to make her friend pay for absolutely everything; vacations, food, dates, literally anything that cost money her friend was paying for and not Mark.
Another thing that was concerning was that Mark always wanted to control her friend.
“One time she was supposed to go on a ski trip with her friends and he lied about his friend dying to keep her from going to “be there for him after the funeral”,” she explained.
“When she asked him questions about the friend about who he was, how close they were, how he died, he wasn’t able to answer any of those which made her suspicious but she ended up staying with him and not going on the trip.”
“Now that you have some background on how their relationship was like we’ll fast forward to a week before Thanksgiving.”
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“He was staying at her apartment that she shared with her roommates from college. They were going to sleep and all of the sudden there’s this really loud banging on the front door.”
Her friend figured her roommates were outside playing some kind of joke on her, but when the banging continued, her friend got out of bed to see what on earth was going on.
Her friend opened her front door to find a man and a woman standing on her doorstep.
The man immediately asked her friend if Mark was at her place, and she had no idea what this all meant.
“She was very confused and asked why,” she said. “He introduced himself as his father and the woman as Mark’s wife. My friend was stunned.”
“The father started attacking her and she started yelling about how she had no idea he was married.”
Her friend invited Mark’s wife inside and began speaking to her about all of the lies. Her friend had absolutely no idea that Mark was still married because he told her that he was divorced.
Mark’s wife was blindsided by the fact that he was dating someone younger for years because Mark’s wife was under the impression their marriage was wonderful.
Her friend was floored, and all she could do was keep apologizing to Mark’s wife because she genuinely had no idea that he wasn’t divorced.
Her friend immediately broke up with Mark, and Mark’s wife is filing for divorce from him.
How would you feel in this situation?
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