The Guy That She’s Been Dating Keeps Saying He’s In Love With Her Before Ghosting Her
A 29-year-old woman has been dating a guy for close to an entire year now, and up until a couple of weeks ago, their relationship was great.
This guy was quite steady, dependable, and generous. She really liked getting to spend her time with him, and she knew he felt the same way.
Well, just several weeks ago, things got pretty weird.
“A few weeks ago he told me he is in love with me,” she explained. “Then ghosted me. Literally poof, gone.”
“Didn’t answer calls or texts, which made me increasingly worried as it was so out of character that I considered calling the police to do a welfare check after 3 days of silence.”
“He finally resurfaced and told me again that he loves me and reassured me he won’t disappear again.”
But, just 6 days after that, he ghosted her for a second time. The guy never offered up a reason for ghosting her yet again.
2 days ago, she decided to try to get a hold of this guy since her dad suffered a stroke and is currently in the ICU.
Sadly, her dad won’t live much longer, and she wanted some comfort or support from her boyfriend.
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Her boyfriend never got back to her at all, but she could see he was active and sharing things on social media like his life was just “normal.”
“So within the space of a week, he was buying me gifts, insisting on speaking to me, begging to speak to me, telling me he is in love with me to total, cold indifference,” she said. “Like night and day difference.”
She’s really struggling right now with making sense of this guy’s behavior. She’s understandably confused and upset about him ghosting her twice in just one week.
She’s not sure if she ever will hear from him again, but if she does, she knows she needs to kick him to the curb.
“This kind of ghosting behavior is why so many people are jaded with dating nowadays,” she continued.
“People seem to just flip on others at the drop of a hat because it’s seemingly more convenient to them than confronting their feelings.”
“Why are there people out there who think this kinda behavior is normal and natural to do? I could never do this to someone, the guilt would eat me away, and yet to him, it’s no big deal.”
Do you think this guy has a good reason for ghosting her twice after saying he’s in love with her?
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