These Women Are Sharing The Creepiest Messages They Have Ever Received While Online Dating
Online dating is undoubtedly a hit or miss. There are the rare, wildly successful tales where matches ended up married– with a white picket fence, kids, and all.
Most of the time, though, joining an online dating platform automatically subjects you to some weird messages.
Whether they are odd pick-up lines or downright creepy statements, no one can ever anticipate them. But, these awkward interactions happen constantly.
So, one Reddit user wanted to hear the creepiest and weirdest messages that women have received while online dating. And many of them are wildly concerning.
This Guy Acted Like Joe Goldberg From “You”
“He saw my profile but did not message me. Then, a few days later, I got a message that he saw me at work but felt it would have been weird to walk up to me.”
“So, instead, he watched me and told me–in detail– everything he saw. He said that since I seemed nice, he thought he should come back and message me to chat.”
“I do not think the person was malicious, but it was socially awkward as f*ck.”
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A Man’s Go-To Pick-Up Line Was To Compare This Woman To A Dog
“A guy once told me that my red hair matched his border collie. Then, he proceeded to tell me how much he loved his border collie and how she was such a good girl.”
“I have gotten some weird messages. But, equating me to a dog and then being weirdly in love with the dog takes the cake.”
This Man Would Constantly Send Her Steamy Stories Where She Was The Main Character
“I had someone who would repeatedly send me (steamy) stories that involved me going over his house.”
“He described what I would say and do as if I were a character.”
“I would block him and then, a week later, get another message from the same person under a new account.”
“They were really long and different every time. Thankfully, he never made it to the (physical) scenes. Maybe he was saving those for later?”
“Either way, it was just so unsettling to be told how I should behave– as if I was not a real person. To me, this was way more disgusting than…hateful comments.”
A Man Visited This Woman At Work For Months And She Never Knew
“I kept getting messages online from this one guy. But, after I got the first message from him, I looked at his profile and realized I was not interested. His message was a simple, ‘what’s up?’ so I just did not reply at all.”
“But, over the next few months, he kept periodically sending me messages. I honestly was not even opening them since I was not particularly interested in dating at the time.”
“I was also working in a retail pet store at the time. After about six months there, the store was not doing so well, and I got let go. I found a new job at a call center instead.”
“Suddenly, a couple of weeks went by after I changed jobs, and I got another message from the guy. The text preview caught my eye and said, ‘Haven’t seen you around lately.”
“I opened the message, confused…by what the stranger meant. I also went to look at his profile again and, after digging, found a recent photo.”
“This guy had been one of my regular customers at the pet store. He would come in every week and always bought something from me!”
“Apparently, that entire time, he had recognized me from OkCupid. But, not once did he say anything, and he came in every week for months.”
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Have you ever received an online dating message as bizarre as these? What did you do?
To read the complete Reddit thread, visit the link here.
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