Chip Chick
She can honestly say her relationship with her boyfriend has been wonderful since cheating on her, but she is beginning to focus on how badly he betrayed her by lying about the severity of his cheating.
Her boyfriend had no problem keeping the details a secret, even though he did have plenty of chances to own up fully to what he did.
Looking back, her boyfriend was quick to gaslight her as she was trying to get over everything, and he also made her feel like she was “crazy.”
“He admitted this was all to save his own skin as he was scared to lose me,” she said. ‘He allowed me to sign a LEASE on a flat with him for a year, knowing I did not know the facts.”
“Even now, I feel like I’m having to direct him in what a ‘good man’ should do. I had to tell him to unfollow the girl he cheated with, I had to tell him to go get therapy, I had to tell him the values that he broke when he did this, I had to tell him to go and unfollow all the girls he follows on Instagram for the sole purpose of them being attractive (something stemming from my insecurity about the situation.)”
“It’s still very fresh, but my head is absolutely frazzled. I care about him deeply, but it just doesn’t feel the same now. I’m unsure if it ever will. I want to be able to heal from this, but I don’t know where to even begin.”
Do you think she can realistically heal for a second time, or do you think she should walk away from this relationship?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
If true crime defines your free time, this is for you: join Chip Chick’s True Crime Tribe
Researchers From Japan Discovered That The Juice Of This Fruit May Inhibit Lung Cancer In Mice
