She Got Rid of A Toxic Friend, But She’s Left Wondering If It Was Wrong of Her To Not Give This Girl A Second Chance
This girl was friends with A for about two or three years.
“Throughout most of it, she had feelings for my brother, J,” she said.
Even though this didn’t bother her, she just requested that A be careful not to do anything awkward while hanging out with her at her house.
However, her friend purposely went against her wishes, deliberately making her feel uncomfortable by talking in depth about her brother constantly.
For the entirety of their friendship, her friend disrespected her and got irritated whenever she reiterated that she didn’t like when she talked about her brother around her.
Recently, she realized that she was still signed into her friend’s Instagram account on her tablet.
“My little brother saw her talking badly about me with her friends. He scrolled a bit and told me everything,” she explained.
Rightfully upset that she found out from her brother that her friend had been gossiping about her behind her back, she confronted her friend.
At first, her friend admitted that she had messed up and shouldn’t have been spreading negativity. But then, her friend proceeded to argue with her, saying that she was “toxic” and was blowing the situation out of proportion. She felt like her friend had been disloyal and untrustworthy but didn’t think it mattered that much. Her friend seemed to expect her to just get over it.
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During their fight, her friend tried to turn everything around and point the finger at her, saying that everything was her fault.
“I did start the fire of the drama by posting about her on my Instagram story after she decided to get my boyfriend involved and call me his pet. He helped me see that she wasn’t a good friend, and he showed me everything I was blind to,” she shared.
After forgiving her friend so many times for all the horrible things she’s done throughout their friendship, this was the last straw.
She wasn’t the only one her friend had mistreated, and her friend has always twisted situations and pretended to be the one who everyone should feel sorry for when she’s always been the one who’s caused drama.
Days later, her friend texted her, asking to get together. She thought it was ridiculous and hilarious that her friend seemed to be trying to win her over. Then she showed her siblings the text, and they all had a good laugh about it before she told her friend that she didn’t want to be friends any longer.
Now, as she looks back on their friendship and the chaos that she endured over the last couple of years, she doesn’t regret that she cut her friend out of her life.
Do you think she did the right thing to end the friendship?
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