He Admitted To Not Finding His Wife Attractive Anymore After She Got Plastic Surgery, And She’s Been Staying With Her Sister Ever Since
A few months ago, this man’s wife had plastic surgery. They talked it over leading up to the procedure, and he wasn’t thrilled with her going through with it. However, since it was his wife’s body, he knew it wasn’t up to him.
“She looks weird now. She had the fat sucked out of her face, lip fillers, a neck lift, and other stuff I don’t get,” he said.
Whenever he looks at his wife, the term “uncanny valley” comes to his mind (meaning that he feels uneasy because his wife looks like a robot). The way she looks now grosses him out. Once she completely healed from her surgery, she hoped they could return to the way their relationship was before.
His wife wanted him to initiate romance like he used to, and he has a few times, but not as often as he did before her surgery. Every time they sleep together, he wants them to stay in the dark as much as possible.
Over the last several months, he can’t even bear to look at his wife, and she’s picked up on it. She constantly asked him what was wrong.
He made excuses that he was exhausted from his job or physically drained to avoid being honest. One day, his wife was in hysterics and questioned whether he was cheating on her. He denied the allegation.
“She asked to look at my phone. I unlocked it for her and handed it over. I wasn’t worried about her finding anything because there was nothing to find,” he explained.
His wife searched through his phone for an hour and didn’t find any evidence that he was cheating, so she then questioned why he was acting differently.
He attempted to tell her he hadn’t been feeling as affectionate lately, but his wife wasn’t satisfied with that answer and continued questioning him.
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“I finally told the truth. I wasn’t harsh or brutally honest. I just told her that her new face wasn’t attractive and that I was turned off,” he shared.
When his wife asked if that was the reason that he wanted the lights off when they slept together, he told her that was why, and she began sobbing. She told him she wanted space, so she left and went to her sister’s place.
After the argument, his wife’s sister called him a jerk for criticizing his wife’s appearance. Her friends also thought he was a jerk.
He pointed out that he attempted not to tell his wife his true feelings about how she looked after her plastic surgery.
Plus, he acknowledged that he couldn’t trick himself into thinking she’s good-looking when he doesn’t think so.
He clarified that he’s still in love with his wife, but her face looks strange now that she’s had this procedure, and, in his opinion, she looks like the blue alien character from the movie “The Fifth Element.”
What advice would you give him?
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