He Found Out His Wife Met Up With A Man At A Hotel, But She Said It Wasn’t Serious, So He Freaked Out On Her
This 31-year-old guy and his wife Jess, who’s 30, have been married for three years, and things in their relationship had seemed quite normal. Well, that was until he recently caught her lying about cheating, and he’s been left questioning everything.
It all began when he realized how secretive Jess was behaving, particularly when it came to her phone. She’d started bringing her cell into the bathroom with her and even slept with the device under her pillow at night.
He eventually tried to talk to her about this, too, but she brushed him off and swore it was “work stuff.” Still, he noticed that her tone of voice was strange.
Not long afterward, he wound up finding a receipt from a hotel in Jess’ purse, and when he asked about it, she stated it was for a “work retreat.”
But the last straw was when he discovered a text from a random man on his wife’s phone. In the message, the man wrote something along the lines of, “Can’t wait for next time.”
Obviously, this set off alarm bells in his head, and he confronted Jess. She initially became all defensive, saying the man was “just a friend” and that nothing had happened between them.
“She admitted to meeting up with this guy but said it was ‘not serious.’ Like, she actually used those words,” he recalled.
“She claimed they just talked, but come on, who books a hotel room just to chat?”
That’s why he ultimately freaked out on his wife and called her dumb for thinking he’d buy that. He also seriously screamed at her, like he never had before, and yelled some things that he realized he probably shouldn’t have.
Viacheslav Yakobchuk – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
For instance, he flat-out accused Jess of being a liar and called himself stupid for marrying a woman who was “so naive or deceitful.”
To make matters worse, he also called up his in-laws and told them all about his wife’s infidelity.
“In the heat of the moment, I called her sister and spilled everything,” he revealed.
“Jess was mortified, and now her family’s involved.”
Amidst all of the drama, he’s currently considering divorcing his wife. Sure, he loves her, but the fact she met up with another man and thought it wasn’t “serious” has made him doubt their whole relationship.
His wife, on the other hand, believes he’s a jerk and entirely overreacting.
“She insists it was just a conversation, nothing more, and that I’m blowing this out of proportion,” he vented.
Now, he’s not entirely sure whether going off on his wife and dragging her family into the situation was the best way to handle things.
Do you agree that no one books a hotel room just to talk if they’re already married? How would you have felt after making this discovery?
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