She Got Into An Argument With Her Brother After His Girlfriend Left Him, And She Said She Completely Understands Where His Girlfriend Is Coming From
Have you ever had a best friend or family member break up with someone you care about?
One woman recently got into an argument with her brother after he broke up with his longtime girlfriend, whom her family formed a close bond with.
She’s 32-years-old and has a 34-year-old brother. He spent the last decade in a serious relationship with a woman named Jane.
For most of his and Jane’s relationship, their entire family adored her. But during the last couple of years, Jade’s attitude seemed to change out of the blue. She became distant and not as friendly.
“She wouldn’t answer us when we asked, so we, admittedly, kind of just avoided her honestly,” she said.
“She blocked everyone off everything, stopped going to family events, etc. “
She had an especially hard time continuing to get along with Jane because, towards the end of her and her brother’s relationship, Jane would start flirting with and only acknowledging her husband.
Recently, her brother drunkenly showed up at her house the other night and explained why he and Jane broke up. When she heard the full story, her perspective immediately changed.
Her brother told her that earlier in his and Jane’s relationship, when Jane was around 23-years-old, she told him how much she wanted to get married and have kids.
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At the time, he had zero interest in doing any of those things and told Jane he wasn’t ready. He told her that if she truly loved him, she’d stick around while he got his act together before committing to anything that serious.
“So she apparently waited around for years, just waiting on him, before he finally told her last week that he didn’t want kids or to get married and that he was comfortable with the life he has currently,” she explained. “So, she left.”
That’s why Jane started having issues with her personally because she was expecting a baby with her husband. Jane also started having a crush on her husband because he was a man who wanted kids.
By the end of their conversation, she was overwhelmed and told him she understood why Jane had left him.
“I told him I understand him as well and his reasoning behind not wanting kids or marriage, but if it was that important to her, I can totally see why she left,” she recalled.
She also told her brother that she understood he wasn’t ready to get married or have kids, but she emphasized that Jane left because he made promises he couldn’t keep. Her brother became very angry and translated all her thoughts into her siding with Jane.
He’s accusing her of valuing Jane over him, her brother.
Do you think it was a good idea for her to express those feelings to her brother while he was in that state?
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