She Freaked Out And Called Her Boyfriend’s Mom Fat When They Had Dinner Together, Which Made Her Cry
This 22-year-old girl began dating her 24-year-old boyfriend 2 years ago, and their relationship is really wonderful.
They get along super, and she can honestly picture spending the rest of her life with her boyfriend.
The only thing standing in her way, however, is her boyfriend’s mom, Mary. A year into dating her boyfriend, she kept saying that she wanted to meet his parents, but he never made concrete plans.
He did eventually organize going out to dinner with them. When she met her boyfriend’s dad, he was sweet to her, but her boyfriend’s mom Mary kept giving her bad vibes; like she disliked her.
“Eventually, as I started to get to know them more, Mary started making really rude comments to me about what I was eating,” she explained.
“She would say things like “Are you really going to eat all of that?” or “Don’t you think you should watch your figure a little bit, my son doesn’t like fat girls,” etc.”
“I would laugh it off as a joke, but my boyfriend and his dad never said anything. This happened every time we would eat with them, and I started to lose my patience. This went on for months.”
Yesterday evening, she went out to dinner with her boyfriend’s parents again, and she ended up losing it on Mary.
At dinner, Mary began making her usual remarks about what she was eating, and then Mary said she should exercise restraint and that it’s “hard for your kind” to do that.
Drobot Dean – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Not only did Mary make her feel lesser than and not really like an adult, but she is Black, and she believes that Mary was referencing her skin color when she made a comment about her “kind.”
She absolutely flipped out on Mary and called her fat. Mary and her boyfriend’s dad were horrified that she said what she did.
“Mary started crying, and I immediately felt bad,” she said. “Before I could even say anything, my boyfriend grabbed my hand and took me to the car, and we went home.”
“It was silent on the way home, and I asked if he wanted to talk, and he said, “Let’s just talk about it tomorrow” he then went to bed, but I can’t help but feel bad.”
She’s left wondering if it was wrong of her to snap and call Mary fat. What do you think?
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