Her Boyfriend Cheated And His Mother Thinks She’s Being Selfish For Wanting To End The Relationship
For nearly three years, this 26-year-old woman and her boyfriend, also 26, have been in a relationship.
For most of their time together, things have been going smoothly.
“We both had told our respective families about the relationship during the first year of the relationship,” she said.
Luckily, their families both approved, which isn’t always the case in their culture. According to their culture, marriages don’t always begin with a foundation of love.
A couple of months ago, her boyfriend’s father was in a horrific accident, and he stayed in the hospital to recover for almost six weeks.
At this point, while both of their families approved of their relationship, they hadn’t met one another yet.
While her boyfriend’s father was still in the hospital, she and her family went to visit him, and this was when she introduced her family to her boyfriend’s family.
Obviously, this wasn’t the way she would have liked to have their families meet, but it went as well as she could have hoped.
Even though her boyfriend’s father is progressing, he has a long way to go with his recovery from the accident.
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“I recently caught my boyfriend texting a random girl on Instagram via a common account that we both share. Upon confrontation, he straight up denied the allegations,” she explained.
Later that same day, her boyfriend’s mother called to ask if everything was okay. Understandably, she felt uneasy divulging details about what was happening with her boyfriend.
Plus, at this point, she hadn’t had an in-depth conversation with her boyfriend about his cheating.
However, her boyfriend’s mother didn’t seem to respect her boundaries, pushing her to give details on the situation.
A few hours after that, her boyfriend confessed to cheating on her, and he said he was sorry while pleading for her to stay with him, promising he’d never do it again.
“He said it was a mistake and that I had provoked him to do this, as we had a massive argument the night before.
Two days later, I got another call from his mother asking to console him and make things right with him as he and his family were under a lot of stress, and I NEEDED to be mindful of what I say,” she shared.
Then, her boyfriend’s mother continued, requesting that she remain in the relationship, adding that her son hasn’t stopped crying since he was caught messaging another woman.
She told her boyfriend’s mother that she wasn’t going to keep dating her son, and his mother was furious at this.
She said she was being “selfish” and “inconsiderate” toward their family during such a difficult time.
Even though she stands by her decision to break up with her boyfriend, she feels awful for stressing his family out since she hadn’t meant to do that at all.
She’s always had a good relationship with his family in the past, so now she’s sad that she hurt them.
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