She’s Refusing To Forgive Her Mother After Seeing Her Mom Messing Around With Her Brother-In-Law At A Family Party
Several days ago, this 14-year-old girl from Mexico witnessed something so uncomfortable and terrible that it caused her to stop speaking to her mother.
Her mother, sister, brother-in-law, and her sister’s friend all threw a party together.
Her mother and father are separated. Everyone, including the adults and children, was having a blast.
They had a water bounce house for the children to play in, and the adults were hanging out while drinking.
When the party first started, her mother was out buying some party supplies like ice, candy, fruit, drinks, and some confetti eggs.
Meanwhile, she was just hanging out in her bedroom. She doesn’t enjoy socializing with her family and likes having quiet time to herself.
Everything seemed normal until her mother came home from the store.
“After she arrived, she went to take a shower, but the strange thing about it was that my brother-in-law went into the bathroom where my mother was,” she said.
Since she assumed that her brother-in-law was maybe going to use the bathroom and didn’t realize her mother was already in there, she didn’t think anything of it and didn’t say anything to him as he walked into the bathroom.
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Three hours later, her mother walked downstairs and into the living room. Her sister told her to come out of her room and hang out with the family, so she decided to finally join everyone.
As she was walking through the house, she noticed that her mother and brother-in-law were sitting next to each other.
At first, she didn’t think anything sketchy was going on until she realized that her brother-in-law was putting his hands on her mother’s legs.
She was shocked because clearly, something was happening between the two of them, and she was so horrified and worried about what she witnessed that she immediately informed her sister.
“She was obviously furious. She quickly went to my mother, slapped her, and then started pulling her hair. The fight escalated, causing my sister to hit my ex-brother-in-law with a bottle,” she explained.
Several hours after the chaos died down, her sister wanted to leave, and she decided to go with her sister.
Her mother didn’t seem bothered by the fact that she didn’t even want to stay in the same house with her.
Later, she went to her grandfather’s house, and he asked her how school was going.
As they talked, the topic switched to how she’d seen her mother and brother-in-law being physically affectionate.
Her grandfather advised her to have a discussion with her mother and express her feelings. Even though she didn’t want to do this, she took her grandfather’s advice.
She sent her mother a message about how her mother’s behavior emotionally affected her.
“She just told me that was my problem and blocked me. My father told me that it wasn’t serious and that my sister didn’t like my ex-brother-in-law anymore anyway and that I should forgive my mother,” she shared.
Her father also told her that she was wrong for not wanting to forgive her mother for what she’d done.
Now, she’s worried that her father may be correct, and she wonders if she should forgive her mother and move past the situation.
What advice would you give her?
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