Her Boyfriend Sadly Passed While On His Way To Propose To Her, And Her Mom Just Intentionally Threw His Ashes Away
In November of 2022, this 29-year-old woman’s boyfriend sadly passed away in a car accident while on his way to propose to her.
He was driving down the highway when another car cut in front of him, causing his car to flip over. While her boyfriend survived the accident, he later on passed away in the hospital.
Ever since then, she has worn her engagement ring every single day, and she treats it like a wedding ring.
In her mind, she and her boyfriend already were a married couple. He was everything to her, and she cannot overcome his loss in her lifetime.
“When I found out he was going to propose and was on his way to me, I felt the most guilt I’ve ever felt in my entire life. It was the worst pain I’ve ever felt,” she explained.
“My mother threw his ashes away two days ago when she house-sat for me. I noticed them missing immediately, and she denied it for all that time until today. I tore my apartment apart, searching for his ashes.”
“I cried, screamed, broke things searching, and felt the loss all over again. My mom confessed to me a few hours ago that she tossed them because I need to get over him already. She said the best thing for me to do to get over the loss is to get rid of traces of him like she did my dad. She said as a mother, she was sick of seeing me cry and wants me to get better.”
She was very little when her dad passed away, so she has no recollection of him. Her mom has spoken of her dad exactly zero times, and her mom acts like her dad didn’t exist.
While that helps her mom cope with the loss, she can’t deal with her boyfriend’s passing in the same way.
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She exhausted herself sobbing and looking for her boyfriend’s ashes, but if she didn’t, she easily could have put her mom in the hospital for what she did.
She cannot believe her mom would do such a heartless thing, and the pain of losing her boyfriend came rushing right back after her mom threw him in the trash.
Her boyfriend’s ashes were the last piece of him she still had with her. She has since blocked her mom and deleted her number from her phone. She has no plans of allowing her mom back into her life in the future.
Some of her family members have reached out to her in an effort to speak about what her mom did, but she blocked them all, too.
“I know that it’s extreme to say that I’ll never love again, but I can’t, and I won’t,” she added. “My love for him grows every day despite him being gone.”
“I always knew how much I loved him then, but it’s strange that once he was gone, I loved him so much more. It was like my eyes opened to how good I had it. I never took him for granted before, but I wish I did more when he was here.”
“I have many regrets about the things I didn’t do because I thought we had an infinite amount of time. Please make the most out of the time with your loved ones. You never know when someone will unexpectedly pass. Do something the two of you will cherish forever in your memories.”
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