He’s Having Second Thoughts About Marrying His Fiancée After Finding Out She Hooked Up With His Sister’s Boyfriend In High School And Caused His Sister A Lot Of Pain
This man and his fiancée were in a relationship for four years before he popped the question last month, and they officially got engaged.
But, while he was super excited about saying “I do” and marrying his fiancée, he recently learned a shocking secret that’s making him have second thoughts.
For some context, over the years, he noticed that his fiancée always acted pretty anxious around his sister. He’d asked about this in the past, too, and all she said was that she and his sister were old friends in high school.
“And when I asked my sister, she, too, said the same thing, but she was always a bit cold to fiancée,” he recalled.
So, their strange behavior toward each other persisted throughout their entire relationship, with his sister always giving his fiancée the cold shoulder.
Then, when he proposed last month and shared the news with his sister, she congratulated him, but it was clear that she wasn’t super excited.
“Which surprised me because we are always each other’s biggest supporters and well-wishers,” he explained.
“But, I did not make too much of it and was really excited that I was engaged and was going to marry the love of my life.”
Well, that was until last week when his sister called him to have a serious discussion and claimed she wanted to get something off of her chest. She also prefaced their conversation by saying that she didn’t want to interfere with her engagement. Nonetheless, she thought he had the right to know something about his fiancée before officially marrying her.
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Afterward, he learned how, while his sister was “distant friends” with his fiancée in high school, his fiancée hooked up with his sister’s boyfriend. According to his sister, his fiancée also knew she was in a relationship but still chose to get with her boyfriend anyway.
“I was a bit shocked because I remember consoling my sister for a few months after her boyfriend cheated on her. I just didn’t know that the person he had cheated on with was my fiancée,” he detailed.
So, the day after his phone call with his sister, he confronted his fiancée about what really happened back in high school, and she finally confessed. She broke down in tears, claimed it was a horrible mistake, and said she felt really guilty about it.
His fiancée also swore that she was a “completely changed woman” who’d learned a lot from the experience.
Now, he does believe that she’s changed since high school and that she isn’t the kind of woman to cheat anymore. Still, he can’t help but second-guess their engagement now.
“I still remember the hurt my sister felt in high school, and to now know that my fiancée was responsible for the hurt, it makes me look at her in a different light,” he vented.
That’s why he doesn’t know if he wants to proceed with marrying his fiancée anymore, and he’s not sure if that makes him a jerk or not.
Do you think it’s possible his fiancée really has changed? Even so, is it understandable why he’s unsure about their engagement now?
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