Not every woman who discovers her husband is cheating decides to blow her life up over it. She made her peace with what her spouse did behind her back, and kept it moving.
But when his mistress came knocking, suddenly minding her own business wasn’t really an option anymore, as she was forced to confront her.
This woman has spent the last fifteen years married to her husband, and she knows her life is pretty amazing. Her husband has a wonderful career and is able to spoil her because of it.
She doesn’t have to work at all, so she designs jewelry, and she’s aware that the money she makes from that would never provide her with the life she currently lives.
“I have not paid bills in years, and I spend my days in my studio, working out or having fun with my friends. Our families are very close, and we have a big social circle that I love very much,” she explained.
“He is great. He cooks and cleans with me, and I never feel like I do more than him. He makes my favorite food every Friday, and he would drive at 3 am at night if I was feeling down and wanted a burger or candy.”
She would do the same for him, except she can’t drive.
Recently, she found out that her husband cheated on her, which she found baffling. She didn’t tell a single soul, as she was afraid for her picture-perfect image to come undone.
It all started with a sneaking suspicion, and after her husband stayed out for a couple of nights and didn’t come home, she was able to go through the bag he had taken with him and found little packages of protection in there that he had brought for whatever it was that he was doing on those overnight trips.
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Obviously, she knew he was cheating based on those little rubber pieces, and then she went through his phone and uncovered text messages between him and his side chick.
But in time, she came to accept the affair. She released the love she had for her husband and instead, replaced it with companionship and friendship.
After all, she adores her life, and her husband is paying for her to have what she does, so she would hate to give it all up because of an affair.
However, while she thought the affair was firmly in the rearview mirror, it got dragged up all over again when her husband’s mistress contacted her!
It was a month ago when she got a message from a random girl on Instagram, which she did not open up. This girl then reached out to her on Facebook and TikTok, but she still refused to engage with her. Next, this girl managed to get her phone number and actually called her up.
“I answered because I thought it was a buyer, and she cornered me. I froze, and she calmly told me to see what she left on Instagram and TikTok. I hung up in panic,” she said.
She went back to the social media messages she had left unread and opened them. This girl, with whom her husband cheated, acted like she didn’t know he was married.
She knows for a fact that’s not true and that this girl was aware of her and her husband being anything but single. She didn’t read the entire message, yet responded to this girl, stating she already was clued in to the affair, before telling her to quit lying about not knowing her husband’s been married this whole time.
This girl instantly became aggressive and antagonistic and said that if she had been a better wife, her husband wouldn’t have strayed.
“I told her that she could have my leftovers. The parts of him that I don’t want, and according to her, ‘neglected.’ I told her she could have his body and even his heart,” she added.
“I have the other, more important things. I have 1/2 of everything else at least, so the leftovers are truly hers. Congrats! She went berserk with insults, and I blocked her.”
“I have been crying since. What do people like her want when they contact the partner of their affair? I am not looking for leave him advice. I love my life, and his love and [physical things] don’t matter to me anymore anyway.”
I think her husband’s mistress got upset that he didn’t leave the marriage, and so she decided to push to try to make that happen by reaching out.
I bet this girl is jealous of her and the luxurious life she’s living, and wishes she had all of that. I can’t see a motive behind the messages, other than envy.
What do you think?
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By Bre Avery Zacharski
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