A couple of months ago, TikToker @sucapone discovered that her now-ex had been cheating on her. She has learned that even if you have what seems like the happiest, most stable relationship, you just never really know what’s going on beneath the surface.
“Even when they share your location with you, even when you spend all your free time together, even when things seem perfect, we never fought, we didn’t argue, we had a great time, and even when you think that you have full sight of everything, if someone wants to cheat on you, they absolutely will,” she said.
According to @sucapone, all the times he cheated on her were in 15 to 30-minute intervals when she was either working or when he was leaving the house. He also texted her while he was cheating, so she never had any suspicions.
It wasn’t just emotional cheating or cheating via social media. He was having physical affairs. She is still shocked because she hadn’t seen this coming, especially since he was kind of a shy, nerdier guy.
She found out about the cheating in early September. She was putting together a yard sale, and he was supposed to help her, but he overslept.
At the time, she had been feeling paranoid that something was going on, but she convinced herself that it was just trauma from past relationships.
After the yard sale, he left her house to go to a dispensary with his sister. When she checked his location, she saw that he was at an apartment complex.
He claimed that his sister wanted to pick something up before they went to the dispensary. He stayed at the apartment complex for about 15 minutes and then went home. Finally, they headed to the dispensary.
At the end of September, she noticed something was going on with her health. She went to the doctor, and it turned out that she was having an HPV flare-up, even though she had never been diagnosed with HPV in her life.
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Later, she also found two toys stuffed in the backseat of his car. At this point, they had been dating for just two and a half months.
“I get no answers about the toys, and inevitably, I have to move on from the subject because they were his friends who he dropped off, and they must have left them in the backseat,” she said. “That was what he was sticking with.”
One night, she was sleeping over at his house when she decided to go through his phone. She had a nagging feeling that something was wrong. She came across a video of him hooking up with a woman in the backseat of his car with those toys she had found.
So, she woke him up in the middle of the night and demanded to know what was going on. He told her that it only happened once, and he blocked the woman right after. Apparently, he had been hooking up with her before he met @sucapone.
She decided to try to forgive him, but she couldn’t stop thinking about that time he was at a random apartment complex. After some internet sleuthing, she found the address. It belonged to 50-year-old Heather, the same woman she caught him hooking up with.
She texted Heather, and she spilled every last detail. She planned to confront him about it on Halloween night. When they got in the car, she pounced. He started crying and freaking out. She threatened to slash his tires and smash his phone if he didn’t tell her the truth.
He was not straightforward and did not give her the full details, so she spent a lot of time punching him. She forced him to drive to Heather’s apartment, so he could finally understand that his secret was out.
After their little field trip, she really had to use the bathroom, so she made him stop at a bar. While they were there, she texted her friends to pick her up. When her friends arrived, she hopped in the car, and they sped off, leaving her ex in their dust.
She cried endless tears and was not proud of her actions.
By Emily Chan
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