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She Slept Two Hours A Night While Putting Herself Through Law School As A Single Mom, And She’s Clapping Back At Moms Who Are Angry About Her Rate Increase

profile Emily Chan | Mar 1, 2026
Mar 1, 2026
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After a group of moms tore her apart in a local mom group on Facebook, TikToker Courtney (@lawyercourtneydriskell) is opening up about what’s going on.

For some background, she is a family law attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and she owns a law firm. She does not come from a family of wealth or lawyers.

She went to law school when she was almost 30 years old, pregnant, and going through a divorce. She needed to find a way to provide for herself and a child, so she decided to go to school.

At the time, she was working a minimum wage job and didn’t even have an associate’s degree. After finally earning her bachelor’s degree, she realized she had an interest in law.

So, she applied to law school and interned at the district attorney’s office in cases involving crimes against children.

During that time, she was raising her son alone and not receiving any financial support. She worked multiple jobs to put herself through law school.

She was an intern by day and an English teacher to kids in China by night. She would have time to sleep between midnight and 2 a.m.

“It was years of sacrifice to get to where we are, and I’m at a spot now where we opened up the law firm last year, and it’s amazing,” said Courtney.

“I’m so grateful for it. I’m grateful that it’s been successful, but it’s still hard. I work seven days a week, 12, 14, 16 hours a day, even when I go on vacation with my family.”

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She really cares about her clients and can relate to the challenges they’re facing. She offers free consultations because she wants people to feel like they can call and ask for help without worrying about money at first.

She also has high standards for her team and accepts nothing but the best quality work from them. However, her team has started to burn out recently because of all the work they’ve been doing.

“I tried to keep our rates low because I’m like, the lower our rates are, the more clients that can afford us, and I had to do three rate increases this year,” explained Courtney.

“I started my rates so low that I had to start bumping them up because I’m not making enough to pay my team what they deserve.”

After increasing the rates, she gave every single one of her team members a raise. Meanwhile, her pay has not increased at all. One day, she saw that a mom in Tulsa had posted about how irritated she was with Courtney’s firm for raising their rates.

But Courtney had had no choice. Sadly, it means she will have to lose some clients, but she needs her legal team and has to pay them fairly.

The only other alternative is that her firm shuts down, and then she won’t be able to help people, which is what she has always wanted to do. It’s why she got into the law profession in the first place.

@lawyercourtneydriskell

Yesterday, a Facebook moms group tore me apart for raising my rates. They called me greedy. They said I only care about money now. That I’m “not the same person” I was when I opened my firm. The truth? I didn’t make one dollar more this week than I did last week. My paychecks haven’t increased at all this year despite the firm’s rate increases. (Our donations to the community- single moms, animal rescues and shelters, etc. have, though!) However, my team’s paychecks did increase this week… because they deserved raises. My people were burning out trying to serve every client who needed us, and I was losing them. And here’s the part I never talk about: This job has cost me pieces of my personal life too. My fiancé and I have had some really hard conversations because I work constantly —nights, weekends, vacations — thinking about my clients and trying to carry all of it alone. Not because I love money. Because I love this work. Because I care about the people who trust me with their lives. Raising my rates wasn’t greed. It was a painful decision so my firm could survive, so my team could stay, so my clients wouldn’t suffer, so I wouldn’t lose the people I love. I wish I could help everyone for free. But I can’t help anyone if the business collapses, and it almost did. If I’ve disappointed anyone, I’m truly sorry. My heart is the same. My mission is the same. I’m just trying to keep this thing standing so I can keep serving the people who need me. #DriskellLaw #lawyersoftiktok #tulsa #oklahoma #okc

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By Emily Chan

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