She Thinks Her Friend Has A Crush On Her Husband And Also Believes Her Husband Might Be Into It
This twenty-one-year-old woman and her husband recently went out on a double date with his best friend and his best friend’s wife, Emily.
She and Emily immediately hit it off and have gotten pretty close since first meeting each other on the date.
But, things have started to get pretty awkward recently– particularly because she believes Emily might have a crush on her husband.
She first noticed things were “off” whenever she would discuss her husband while with Emily.
For example, whenever she talks about what her husband likes– such as the color green– Emily immediately starts talking about how much she loves the same thing.
But, she did not think any of this at first– until Emily started acting kind of flirty literally during the double dates.
“Every time we are out together, they [her husband and Emily] touch hands accidentally. I didn’t think anything at first, but it happens EVERY TIME we meet!” she recalled.
Plus, she noticed that her husband was never the one at fault. Instead, it was always Emily basically reaching out to touch her husband’s hand “on accident.”
And most recently, one more incident completely pushed her over the edge of insecurity. She and Emily had gone shopping and decided to get their husbands matching shirts.
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They planned to have their husbands wear them out during a double date as a sort of prank.
But, she had a lingering suspicion that Emily would end up taking the shirt and wearing it herself.
So, she never gave her husband the shirt, and, low and behold, Emily showed up in it.
Nonetheless, it’s not even Emily’s possible feelings for her husband that are making her upset. Instead, she has been worrying about her husband.
“What makes me sad is not that she may have feelings for him, but it’s that if he had the chance, would he go to her?” she said– because honestly, she feels like her husband is attracted to Emily, too.
Apparently, he regarded Emily as a “little sister”– which she believes is a “dead giveaway” excuse that is often used to cover up attractions.
Plus, after she confronted him about all of the random touching incidents, he apparently remembered every single one– which she also thinks is a red flag.
So now, she is just feeling utterly insecure about the entire situation.
“I feel so insecure and pathetic for feeling this way, and I cannot help but feel extremely annoyed with him,” she explained.
“I’m fine with her, which is wrong of me, I know. But, I kind of want to push it and see more of what happens between them to confirm this.”
Nonetheless, she is not sure if that’s the right way to go about the situation.
In turn, she has been asking for any advice on how to best handle her husband and Emily’s possible crush on each other.
What is the best way to go about this situation? What would you do?
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