She’s Concerned Because Ever Since She And Her Husband Sold Their House, Her Husband Keeps Going Back Over To Hangout With The 20-Year-Old Girl Who Now Lives There
This 35-year-old woman has been married to her husband, who is 37, for 10 years now. And just last year, they finally moved out of their first-ever home together.
Opting to sell the house was a very difficult decision– mainly because they moved in there as newlyweds and even welcomed their children into the world while living in that home.
On top of that, though, that house was also her husband’s childhood home.
“He and his family moved there when he was 12, and they sold it to us right before we got married,” she recalled.
Nonetheless, she and her husband eventually decided that they simply needed more space to raise their family.
So, they opted to sell their house to an older couple– who were in their 60s and had a 20-year-old daughter and 5-year-old grandchild.
Apparently, the couple explained how they planned to primarily live with their oldest child in Florida. Then, during the hotter summer months, they would travel back to stay at the home.
This meant that their 20-year-old daughter would be the primary inhabitant of the house and would be responsible for paying the mortgage and utilities.
Now, she and her husband’s old home was reportedly built in the 1970s and had a lot of its own quirks.
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So, at the time of the sale, her husband told the couple that if anything ever went wrong with the house, they could just give him a call.
“He would see if he knew how to fix it or give them the number of the repair people he usually used,” she added.
And in the beginning, everything had been fine for the few months following the sale. But then, in December, something happened with her old house’s heating system when a cold front rolled in.
At that point, it was just the 20-year-old daughter and her child living in the house, too. So, her husband wound up going over to repair the heat– which he claimed was a relatively easy fix.
Upon arriving home, though, she remembered how her husband made a comment about how nice it had been to be back at their old house. He also revealed how much he missed it.
And ever since then, she feels like her husband has looked for any reason to go back over to the old house.
First, her husband went back over again to check on the heating in anticipation of another cold front. Then, he actually brought their youngest child to go sledding with the 20-year-old woman’s daughter.
Apparently, her husband claimed that their youngest just enjoyed hanging out with the other little girl.
“But there is a four-year age difference, so although, yes, I know our child has fun with them, I don’t think they exactly asked for a playdate,” she revealed.
After bringing up her concerns to her husband, though, he just accused her of overreacting.
Nonetheless, she still thinks she is entitled to having some reservations about her husband’s behavior over the past few months.
And now, she has been left wondering whether her husband going back to their old house to hang out with the new occupant is really a cause for concern or not.
Do you think her husband was just trying to be helpful? Might he have felt a bit nostalgic in the process, or do you think there is something shadier going on? If you were in her shoes, would you feel concerned about this? How do you think she should handle this situation?
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